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atv2
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What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.

Has anyone been involved in those types of friendships/relationships/marriages where you've been the contributing factor and all the other side could do is procrastinate you/put you off and fill you with excuses? How did it feel and what was your solution?

Aug 24th, 2014 07:15 PM

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I guess you mean that you don't feel that your friend is spending enough time with you, if so you could address that with them and see how it goes.

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Re: What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.

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Has anyone been involved in those types of friendships/relationships/marriages where you've been the contributing factor and all the other side could do is procrastinate you/put you off and fill you with excuses? How did it feel and what was your solution?

Hmm, sounds like you should cut that part out and start new.

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Hmm, sounds like you should cut that part out and start new.

Sounds like you've seen some shit and had super shitty friends and are speaking from experience.

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Sounds like you've seen some shit and had super shitty friends and are speaking from experience.

Nah, just like if something is dragging you down, cut it out.

Aug 24th, 2014 08:41 PM

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IF the issue can't be addressed through communication then it's time to move on. Healthy relationships are all about reciprocation. Although, many times the sense of being taken advantage of is the result of miscommunication.

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Aug 26th, 2014 06:16 PM

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I think you should turn to an online movie discussion website and ask its forum members.

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I think you should turn to an online movie discussion website and ask its forum members.

Works for me...

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Re: What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.

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Has anyone been involved in those types of friendships/relationships/marriages where you've been the contributing factor and all the other side could do is procrastinate you/put you off and fill you with excuses?

Two sides to every argument...

Maybe you're too demanding & expect too much back?

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Knifehand strike to throat.

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Still looking for the other half. wink

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I think you should turn to an online movie discussion website and ask its forum members.

and here I thought we had something more. laughing out loud

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Aug 29th, 2014 03:29 AM

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I seriously think every thread should be required to be prefaced with:
"Hey! F*cking strangers, in a back alley of the internet that is mostly nerds getting angry at each other over fictional vs. battles! Yeah, you f*ckers. I got something I need your input on..."

Then the OP actually starts. It would lend an entirely new, often hilarious perspective to many threads. Serious topics are fine, but there's something about advice solicitations that always tickled me in this context.

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Aug 29th, 2014 04:38 AM

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I seriously think every thread should be required to be prefaced with:
"Hey! F*cking strangers, in a back alley of the internet that is mostly nerds getting angry at each other over fictional vs. battles! Yeah, you f*ckers. I got something I need your input on..."

Then the OP actually starts. It would lend an entirely new, often hilarious perspective to many threads. Serious topics are fine, but there's something about advice solicitations that always tickled me in this context.

Do you have friends?

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Aug 29th, 2014 05:34 AM

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Do you have friends?

Lol, plenty. But I'm a jaded forum vet that's been posting on this board for far too long...what do you expect?

stick out tongue

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Lol, plenty. But I'm a jaded forum vet that's been posting on this board for far too long...what do you expect?

Then you are qualified to lend advice on the subject wink

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Aug 29th, 2014 08:25 AM

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Then you are qualified to lend advice on the subject

Indeed.

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Indeed.

good talk

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Aug 29th, 2014 03:32 PM

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Re: Re: What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.

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Two sides to every argument...

Maybe you're too demanding & expect too much back?

I'm far from demand; I've been making things fairly simple, extending time and keeping it basic but in spite of that they tend mess up. Some have had the nerve to complain and want to say they need their quote on quote "space" when it is them who is taking up space. They couldn't meet a 1/4th of what I've given them, go down the units. These past few friendships have been fragile.

Aug 30th, 2014 12:46 AM