why would some people wait to have sex beofre marriage.
i mean these day people get married in there late 20 and earily 30
why should you have to wait i mean if yo uknow if love that person very much whats wrong with have sex.
plus iam a religious perosn i got to church every sunday i pray all the time. But i have a girlfriend who i love very much and in a couple of years time we will marry.
I think it just depends on the person and what they feel is right and what they believe in. Usually the people who want to wait to have sex until they are married tend to get married pretty young, like between 18 - 23.
yeah, like linds said, when you're ready and some say that's until after marriage
it depends on your views and values and that's different for everyone
thats true but i hate people who say people who have sex beofore marriage are evil and not pure.
thats what really pissed me of
__________________ With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censored, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably.These words were uttered by Judge Aaron Satie -- as awisdom, and warning. The first time any man's freedom is trodden on, we're all damaged.
"One ought never to turn one's back on a threatened danger and try to run away from it. If you do that, you will double the danger. But if you meet it promptly and without flinching, you will reduce the danger by half.-----Sir Winston Churchill
I don't know if you are allowed to call religion there a problem, true it is very pervasive. But you don't need examples from overseas. The Muslim lobby here in the UK is very powerful and in the ghettoes a lot of white kids have converted.
I see no reason why women should cover up all the time, or be punished for wearing make up, but I would strongly advise against promiscuity, both because of the obvious risks with STDs and the possibility of unplanned pregnancy. It is very sad when someone who is a child themself ends up with a baby they can't look after.
In Lybia there is a school of thought which says that premarital sex mucks up the line of father-son continuation, so the existance of an illegitimate child is a problem. I recall there was this case of a boy who killed his sister because she had an unlawful pregnancy. In the strictly fundamentalist school of thought, this would be considered necessary to redeem the family's honour.