Why is it "sick" if a mature woman wants sex with teenage-boys...
But only "natural" if a mature man goes after teenage-girls??
Here in DK the "sexual minor age" is 14. So once you turn 15 you can have all the sex you want.
__________________ "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."
-Voltaire
"That includes ruining Halloween because someone swallowed a Bible."
"I just thought you were a guy."
"... Most guys do."
where the hell did you hear that? quite the opposite in america.
men are instantly tossed in prison whereas women are often sympathised with "she was abused as a child" "she was actually a victim because in her childhood blah blah blah" a man does such a crime, and nobody gives a shit about excuses. and why should they? same should go for women, but it doesnt. in america, thats the reality.
PVS> Then let me rephrase myself.
Why is it considered "sick" if a mature woman goes after YOUNGER men (down to the age of 15 here in DK), but it's ok for mature men to hunt YOUNGER women (down to the age of 15?).
Barring the drugs this woman supplied, she's committed any crime as far as I can tell.
__________________ "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."
-Voltaire
"That includes ruining Halloween because someone swallowed a Bible."
"I just thought you were a guy."
"... Most guys do."
there is always one punk ass snitch who wants to ruin it for everybody. you know how much i wish i could get to f **** one of my friends moms?
yeah there is a double standard and rightfully so. im sure that woman didnt have to force any of them to take thier clothes off. once the words LETS...HAVE..... and SEX are uttered in the same sentence thats all it takes to get teenage boys going. where as, if it were a man it would be much more difficult, usually he would have to prey on the girl with the low self esteem and tell her how she's pretty, and how sex is something you do when two ppl are in love and if you loved me you would do this, and next thing you know he says this'll be our little secret, then she becomes even more depressed and shows visible signs of it til someone catches on then boom big story!
but with a boy, the moment he climbs out of the vagina he'll be high fiving himself on the way home and brag to all his friends. he's not gonna be depressed and traumtized, and have sleepless nights, and write about how horrible it was in a diary. look at things here in the US. the beginning of 2005 almost seemed like open season for female teachers having sex with young boys, and giving them drugs, and most if not all of them got busted becuase they bragged to thier friends who told some more friends who told some parents who called the police.
so i would say that it is more sick for a man to do that, cuz he's definatley taking adnvantage of someone that age where as a woman is just fulfilling every teenage boys' fantasy. so women will alwys get my sympathy. however, they should know that teenage boys are horribly notorious for not being able to keep secrets of that nature, especially when there is ego and bragging rights at stake. if thier stupid enuff to do it then they should go to jail but not for long periods like men should be
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Well i believe it is 18 here (and in the US) and although we are rather liberal down here I think it is that way: Women that are older abd go after younger guys are seen as sick because society believes that its not a typical behaviour for women to "go" after any guy, and when she goes after younger guys she's labeled as desparate...now I think if it actually came to sexual intercourse its the other way around if a Man has sex with a girl he will be persecuted and blamed much more than a woman that has sex with a boy (that's probably because its this notion that guys love sex and they are lucky when they get some with a mature woman, while girls are considered "innocent", they must be forced...) It's treated the same by law though....
I don't think double-standards should rightfully be there. A friend of mine, who studies sociology, has introduced me to the word dichotomy, and it's got me thinking. It deals with duality, with opposites. So, since MEN are different from WOMEN, the two are supposed to be opposites in our social way of thinking. If men LIKE sex, women do not. If women like shopping, men do not. Men are abusers, women the abused. And so on and so forth.
And, MAN, does that screw up our ability to interact.
Where did the idea, that a very sexually active woman is a **** come from? Wheras a very sexually active man is "da man"?
Has NO guy in the history of humankind felt used by a woman after sex, because HE wanted more? I think so? Has no woman tip-toed out of the bedroom the next morning without leaving her phonenumber? Yes, she had (this signature is quilty as charged). Do single men always accept an offer of casual sex? No, they do not.
Life isn't binary. Men are not the 0's and women the 1's (or vice versa). Said sociology friend once said that life takes place between 0,1 and 0,9, and we're all in there.
__________________ "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."
-Voltaire
"That includes ruining Halloween because someone swallowed a Bible."
"I just thought you were a guy."
"... Most guys do."
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Well I agree but the problem I think its easier to handle if one society at least makes some such statements....that they do n ot apply always or maybe even are totally wrong is a different matter...but it might just be the way we humans think...it might not but I really don't know.....
i remember i turned down an offer for asual sex once and it toally is in my top ten for biggest mistakes ever! no exaggerating so im gonna say more less than you think but you do make some valid points tho
i really dont think any girl at 14 was like me...thinking about sex , congruently with every breath i drew. so i think it is more a likey hood that a man having sex with a girl that age some forcing or strong coaxing must be involved, where as it is a totally diff story for the opposite. i remeber days when i wished one of teachers would wanna **** me, or any grown woman for that matter, seriously
But why should men want sex more than women?? Nature wouldn't be very wise that way.
It's the same with studies in adultery. If so and so many men commit adultery, where are all the women they commit adultery WITH?
My girlfriends and I once discussed how often we thought about sex in a single day. I can't remember the number, but as Nicole Kidman says in "Eyes Wide Shut": 'If you men only knew'...
So to get back to the 40-year-old woman who threw parties... Did anyone ask the guys how they REALLY feel about the ordeal?
__________________ "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."
-Voltaire
"That includes ruining Halloween because someone swallowed a Bible."
"I just thought you were a guy."
"... Most guys do."
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It was a joke.
Jul 27th, 2005 07:28 AM
how responsible
it solves lots of problems
