Sancty
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Gender: Female Location: -
Aug 3rd, 2011 09:07 AM
Scythe
The Goat
Gender: Unspecified Location: In Her Kitty Arms
Haw-Haw, you read it all.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:14 AM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Scythe
Just take it easy on the depression, seems like it's gone down, but what I'm worried about is that if you ask her to get involved and she says no, depression will cause her to not seek your company. Ya know? May make being good friends afterwards seem abit odd. Though I don't think that should be an issue because from all the time knowing you, you know when to take a positive stance.
Yes, back when I was very depressed one of my friends just came out and said, nobody wants to be around depressed people, it makes them feel just as bad.
I learned a lot from that time In my life.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
I'm sorry, I just kinda wanted to hear it from a male perspective.
I'm thankful for your feedback. I'm thankful for any feedback, from anyone.
Plus, Dom has some years under his belt. Ya know?
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Sancty
Oh I'm sorry *leaves*
*comes back* maybe you should have mentioned that in your first post so I didn't read it all!
also the age gap is nothing man, good lucks
*Ahhemm*
You didn't read it all......
But thanks.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:21 AM
Scythe
The Goat
Gender: Unspecified Location: In Her Kitty Arms
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
Yes, back when I was very depressed one of my friends just came out and said, nobody wants to be around depressed people, it makes them feel just as bad.
I learned a lot from that time In my life.
That's a tough lesson to learn, but I am glad it's out of the way, but I hope you are honest with her and straight to the point. People like it when others are honest and it'll cease the pussyfootin' around.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:29 AM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Scythe
That's a tough lesson to learn, but I am glad it's out of the way, but I hope you are honest with her and straight to the point. People like it when others are honest and it'll cease the pussyfootin' around.
Mhmm. It is.
And I hope I can be as honest and as straight forward as I can. I typically am, but its just this situation, ya know?
You just said pussyfoot. :O
:P
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:34 AM
Scythe
The Goat
Gender: Unspecified Location: In Her Kitty Arms
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
Mhmm. It is.
And I hope I can be as honest and as straight forward as I can. I typically am, but its just this situation, ya know?
Well it makes sense, because we fear the outcome of these kinds of things, but I wish you the best of luck.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
You just said pussyfoot. :O
:P
I did, I've had that one loaded up for awhile to use, along with:
Robocop's cock
Pussysaur
Checkered shit
Someday though, someday.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:39 AM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Scythe
Well it makes sense, because we fear the outcome of these kinds of things, but I wish you the best of luck.
I did, I've had that one loaded up for awhile to use, along with:
Robocop's cock
Pussysaur
Checkered shit
Someday though, someday.
Thank you very much.
You are a really awesome friend.
I laughed so hard at that. XD
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:49 AM
Scythe
The Goat
Gender: Unspecified Location: In Her Kitty Arms
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
Thank you very much.
You are a really awesome friend.
I laughed so hard at that. XD
Yer welcome, tell us how everything turned out.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:52 AM
King of Blades
The King
Gender: Male Location: The South
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Scythe
Yer welcome, tell us how everything turned out.
Look at us. Such responsible adults
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Aug 3rd, 2011 04:32 PM
Mairuzu
Old School Cool
Gender: Male Location: The bellies
This aint real talk
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Aug 3rd, 2011 04:39 PM
King of Blades
The King
Gender: Male Location: The South
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Mairuzu
This aint real talk
Metaphysically? Literally? Exponentially human...
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Aug 3rd, 2011 04:40 PM
Mr. Rhythmic
Senior Member
Gender: Male Location: Britain
Well, if you haven't done anything already, I'd suggest this:
Ask her out on a date, and start off a bit slow. If your maturity is something that draws her, nothing says "I'm mature" than knowing how to pace a relationship. Don't batter around the subject of a relationship, but don't just randomly express your love. Just ask her if she would like to see a movie or something, and begin to explore why you two like each other some more.
But whatever you do, DO NOT hold away your feelings. My own lack of confidence and fear of failure cost me the girl of my dreams, and instead walked off with one of the biggest jerks I have ever met. So whatever you do, don't avoid it.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 04:46 PM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Mr. Rhythmic
Well, if you haven't done anything already, I'd suggest this:
Ask her out on a date, and start off a bit slow. If your maturity is something that draws her, nothing says "I'm mature" than knowing how to pace a relationship. Don't batter around the subject of a relationship, but don't just randomly express your love. Just ask her if she would like to see a movie or something, and begin to explore why you two like each other some more.
But whatever you do, DO NOT hold away your feelings. My own lack of confidence and fear of failure cost me the girl of my dreams, and instead walked off with one of the biggest jerks I have ever met. So whatever you do, don't avoid it.
Thanks, yeah the same thing happened to me with the only other person I've felt this way about.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 05:41 PM
Mr. Rhythmic
Senior Member
Gender: Male Location: Britain
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
Thanks, yeah the same thing happened to me with the only other person I've felt this way about.
Don't let history repeat itself.
And remember though: If she says no or anything, it isn't the end of the world, and it's better to have tried than to have left it hanging.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:18 PM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Mr. Rhythmic
Don't let history repeat itself.
And remember though: If she says no or anything, it isn't the end of the world, and it's better to have tried than to have left it hanging.
I'm gonna try not to do that.
And its gonna be hard...
Thanks man.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:22 PM
Mr. Rhythmic
Senior Member
Gender: Male Location: Britain
quote: (post ) Originally posted by mikeydude
I'm gonna try not to do that.
And its gonna be hard...
Always is, but what helps define someone is how they handle situations.
quote: Thanks man.
No problem.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 09:24 PM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
So, I'm meeting up with her at 8.
I think I'm gonna go through with it.
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Aug 3rd, 2011 10:20 PM
Scythe
The Goat
Gender: Unspecified Location: In Her Kitty Arms
quote: (post ) Originally posted by King of Blades
Look at us. Such responsible adults
Right? Shit's changed!
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Aug 4th, 2011 01:38 AM
dadudemon
Senior Member
Gender: Male Location: Bacta Tank.
How did it go?
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Aug 4th, 2011 03:51 AM
mikeydude
Cleveland is the Reason.
Gender: Male Location: Heaven at nite.
Well, I wasn't expecting her friend to be there with us the entire time. And I couldnt get her alone. But Idunno. Spending all that time today, made me almost not feel the same way.
And now I feel Leik a retard.
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Aug 4th, 2011 07:39 AM
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