ah yes, member... the age ol' question, to approach or not approach, that is the real question.
when i was in highschool and the first few years after, i was a shy kid. needless to say i didn't too much dating. i had the obligatory crush on a girl in a few of my classes and i never did anything about it. well now that i'm in my late 20's i have gained a bit of confidence... i actualy met the girl i had a crush on through friends of friends getting together for some kind of festive event (known as gasparilla (a local event)) and we started talking and i realized that she had a crush on me! well, we went out for a bit... but the point being you never know what someone else is thinking. and trust me its always better to get it off your back... if you do get rejected it will feel bad for a while, but never knowing is torment! and who know what you might miss out on. but then again i've never had a bad relationship.
The problem was it hit me really hard!I'm not the dating tipe. I'm to cold and I like being alone. It also takes me along time to trust people and be myself. But with him it was like I saw him and then just couldn't forget him! Then I met him,me and my friends and he was always like distante, I tried talking but it was always yes or no answers. And then a friend of mine told him I liked him and he just started ignoring me. Like I passed him in school said hello and he wouldn't even answer. Only if my friends were around would he answer so I just stoped trying. It as been like 3years and i still think about him all the time! Basterd! Is not wordy. i mean he didn't have to like me but he didn't have to ignore either. I wasn't like all over him and did nothing to make him unconfortable. I'm actually quite shy and don't speak much!
i hear you kes... my best friend is like that (we dated for like 8 years, on and off) she is genius smart and tends to isolate herself, she doesn't trust many people and is a loaner. but thats what i like about her.. .she goes against the grain. but also, you seem fairly young... this is not that last time that will happen to you i'm sure... but to find someone, if even for just a short time, can be very rewarding.
sorry its a private joke! my friends and i used to say every time we started freeking out or acted wierd that it would pass before 18 or it wouldn't pass at all! it was a joke. bad one i know!
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Jun 13th, 2003 05:35 PM
