Well said Corran.I dont post here that much at this site so I hardly know anybody here.I definetely dont know any of these posters on this thread except for maybe Lil Bitchiness and I dont even know her that well either..But I happend to be in this section today and thought this thread looked like an interesting topic so I decided to read it all. Yes Xena Fan took things too serious in that thread about art and she should not have taken her grudges she had with the other posters like Lil over to other threads like Lils but she has apologized for that.Come on give her a break,she really is sorry about all that obviously and wants to put it behind her and start with a clean slate and I am glad to see there have been some mature posters come on here and say they accept her apology and its all forgotten about.You all need to do the same thing.Like Corran said,none of this- We wont be friends nonsense I'm hearing.Like he said,lets all be nice and have a little group hug.By the way,welcome to the site Xena fan. helpful hint for you I thought I might give you.Dont take things like nude art so seriously or what people say to you on the net,their just words on a screen from someone you've never met before.
Take it from me Ive been there in your shoes before and used to react over things the same way you did when I first started speaking in public forums,But what I have learned in the last couple years since going into public forums such as this one is if people act childish towards you and say things that are out of line,you just got to shrug your shoulders and say-Oh forget them,their idiots.why should I care what a bunch of moron internet personalitys whom I ve never met before think of me? Its just words on a screen I tell myself and just ignore it all and go on. Dont anybody here get the wrong idea and think Im calling anybody idiots here,thats just the way I go about it when I get insulted in a discussion when people dont see things like I do and feel the need to get into insults over it.again welcome to the site.
Yeah I agree with Linkalicious.Xena fan you rock.it takes a big person to admit what they did was wrong and to apologize and take responsibility for their actions.I read through all of your posts on all the threads you posted at and although what you said was wrong,the way a lot of these posters here responded was EQUALLY wrong and I would expect better of that from long time posters to stoop to that level.Come on people its not like she went out and mudered a family member of yours.Enough of this chidish-I forgive you but we wont be friends crap Im seeing.Gee thats grade school stuff.I dont why you all cant let her start with a clean slate and put all that behind you.If we all stayed mad at each other over things someone said to us we did not like we'd all probably never have any friends.
yeah i agree some people are being total wankers to Xena fan
__________________ With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censored, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably.These words were uttered by Judge Aaron Satie -- as awisdom, and warning. The first time any man's freedom is trodden on, we're all damaged.
"One ought never to turn one's back on a threatened danger and try to run away from it. If you do that, you will double the danger. But if you meet it promptly and without flinching, you will reduce the danger by half.-----Sir Winston Churchill
Alright, both to Link and Mr. Parker> Like I said, I have accepted her apology, but I cannot simply overlook what she's done--neither can most other people who came in contact with her. I'd love to say that I can forget it, but I can't. I have a bad habit of holding grudges, and on top of all this, a few of her comments which she basically disregarded me because I was younger than her is utter crap. I personally feel like accepting that apology is enough, because I doubt that the two of us could ever be friends.
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Mar 3rd, 2004 05:46 PM
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