Kara smiled. "well, i guess i must say something," she said growing into a wise female adult. "Well, as you don't know, I don't join many or any groups. Therefore, I will not join yours."
*awkward silence*
"But, i will be your friend. I will do everything a member would do, but i won't be addressed as a member of your group. My decision may change, but what will happen, will happen. I will be a very helpful friend."