carefull there, I've often fooled myself into thinking things can't get more complicated...
ah fook it, sod the realism - it will be okay in the end, everything will magically sort its self out before you know it... ✅
don't know if it helps but something a friend told me that I like to try to live to is this
Everything will be alright in the end, if it isn't alright, then it isn't the end!