b/c you're anti social?
do you express yourself as being happy with ppl or are you like darlene *shoulder Shrug* whatever?
if you make it difficult for ppl to read you they may think you are cold.
maybe spend less time online and more time with real ppl and get to know each other.
you seem to be very intelligent with various hobbies, i am surprise you cant find some one that would be interested to hear about what you do or wanna be.
maybe given you foot rubs or shoulder neck messages.. make sure he isnt a prick.. make wise choices