Originally posted by Dave_97
man, i got a bad feeling, so i walked out to the kitchen and my mom said "i have some bad new.. i know you can tell from the look on my face"
me: "Ok, im moving out"
her: "her boyfriend is hitting her, so jackie is moving back."
me:"And im moving out"
her: "Matt"
me: "Moving Out"i ****ing hate her.
How about that. I'm in the exact opposite situation. I love my parents, but I can't be around them for to long or my family for that matter. I can't wait till I can go back to Chicago to my own home and be left alone. I don't know whatever it is that people have in their DNA that makes them want to be close to their family, but I don't have it. The only family I want is my own with someone. I just don't get along with them. So where you're being forced to move, I'm being forced to stay at the moment.
Im not being forced.
but i am leaving.
She's getting beat by the guy she's living with.
so she wants to move back.
So i'm moving out.
I get flak from people for being 21 and living with my mother, but as soon as i want to move out, im some horrible person.
people say im stupid.
and for once im going to agree, I can not, in anyway, make this make sense, so im just going to roll with the fact im a horrible person.
for having given up my life in quebec so i could come back here and take care of my mother while nobody else in my family gave a big enough shit to do so, Even though they all lived in the same ****ing city, and it aint a big city.
For letting my sister move back in, for knowing im not ready to move out, i dont have the money, i just lost my job, and im still willing to take this hit so's that she can have a place to live. I must be the world's biggest monster of a person, and.. Yeah.
i can't wrap my head around this, so i think i need to get 100% plastered to the wall with alcohol poisoning, im talking mid-90s robert downy jr. and late-80s nick nolte becoming roommates; levels of drinking here.
maybe then it can make some sense to me, because as it stands, **** just about every sense of logic.
this is my family, and they make my head hurt.
Originally posted by Dave_97
Im not being forced.
but i am leaving.She's getting beat by the guy she's living with.
so she wants to move back.So i'm moving out.
I get flak from people for being 21 and living with my mother, but as soon as i want to move out, im some horrible person.
people say im stupid.
and for once im going to agree, I can not, in anyway, make this make sense, so im just going to roll with the fact im a horrible person.
for having given up my life in quebec so i could come back here and take care of my mother while nobody else in my family gave a big enough shit to do so, Even though they all lived in the same ****ing city, and it aint a big city.
For letting my sister move back in, for knowing im not ready to move out, i dont have the money, i just lost my job, and im still willing to take this hit so's that she can have a place to live. I must be the world's biggest monster of a person, and.. Yeah.i can't wrap my head around this, so i think i need to get 100% plastered to the wall with alcohol poisoning, im talking mid-90s robert downy jr. and late-80s nick nolte becoming roommates; levels of drinking here.
maybe then it can make some sense to me, because as it stands, **** just about every sense of logic.this is my family, and they make my head hurt.
This is the way of the world my friend. You can apply this to almost everything in life. I sure as hell do. I just don't need the alcohol to make sense of it. You probably shouldn't get wasted. Just roll with the punches, and be the bigger man. My youngest sister is actually the same way. She has two kids, and her and her "boyfriend" are always fighting. I didn't know he hit her until I had to move back home due to health issues this July. When I found out me and my brother were going to blow his car up, but my Dad made some big deal out of it. I can't stand people who let themselves get themselves physically hurt. Emotionally is a different story, as even I have fallen subject to that shit.
*edit* as for your age and living at home. Not a big deal in America. There are ****in people all around who are 21 and older living at home still to save money. It's just almost expected anymore these days.
Originally posted by Kaibsi know its not that big a deal, im not even pissed about her moving back, im pissed that im getting more shit about being ok with this than i have in the past when i was throwing a fit over it.
This is the way of the world my friend. You can apply this to almost everything in life. I sure as hell do. I just don't need the alcohol to make sense of it. You probably shouldn't get wasted. Just roll with the punches, and be the bigger man. My youngest sister is actually the same way. She has two kids, and her and her "boyfriend" are always fighting. I didn't know he hit her until I had to move back home due to health issues this July. When I found out me and my brother were going to blow his car up, but my Dad made some big deal out of it. I can't stand people who let themselves get themselves physically hurt. Emotionally is a different story, as even I have fallen subject to that shit.*edit* as for your age and living at home. Not a big deal in America. There are ****in people all around who are 21 and older living at home still to save money. It's just almost expected anymore these days.
but the one time im being reasonable, the one ****ing time im not throwing a fit over this shit, its the first time i've been told im being unreasonable.
im not currently burning down the house and laughing while wearing a cape, therefore im clearly insane.
when women are involved, things just cant make sense.
Originally posted by Dave_97
i know its not that big a deal, im not even pissed about her moving back, im pissed that im getting more shit about being ok with this than i have in the past when i was throwing a fit over it.
every time she has had to move back, it has been for the same reason, boyfriend beating her, this is nothing new.
and every time, i've been all "Over my dead body, rage rage rage rage" and broke some shit.but the one time im being reasonable, the one ****ing time im not throwing a fit over this shit, its the first time i've been told im being unreasonable.
im not currently burning down the house and laughing while wearing a cape, therefore im clearly insane.
when women are involved, things just cant make sense.
Well man, you're your own man. As important it is to usually get along with your mum or father as best as possible sometimes it's just best to let shit happen where they may. Although having no job and no cash does put you in one **** of a spot. So I feel for you there.
Originally posted by Kaibsi am indeed my own man, and a lot of shit has the changed this past year, anger in complete check, not doing things irrationally, caring about family for a change, etc etc.
Well man, you're your own man. As important it is to usually get along with your mum or father as best as possible sometimes it's just best to let shit happen where they may. Although having no job and no cash does put you in one **** of a spot. So I feel for you there.
im a better person now, and a much happier one.
so yeah, being in this spot does suck, but i'll survive, if there is one thing im good at (other than bringing thousands of women to orgasm with just my fingers) its landing on my feet.
ive dealt with the worst of times, the best of times, and im still standing tall,... i've seen a million faces... and i've rocked them all...
cause im a cowboy....
AND ON A STEEL HORSE I RIDE, IM WANTED, DEAD OR ALIVE. awesome i love you bon jovi.
Originally posted by Dave_97
i am indeed my own man, and a lot of shit has the changed this past year, anger in complete check, not doing things irrationally, caring about family for a change, etc etc.im a better person now, and a much happier one.
so yeah, being in this spot does suck, but i'll survive, if there is one thing im good at (other than bringing thousands of women to orgasm with just my fingers) its landing on my feet.
ive dealt with the worst of times, the best of times, and im still standing tall,... i've seen a million faces... and i've rocked them all...
cause im a cowboy....
AND ON A STEEL HORSE I RIDE, IM WANTED, DEAD OR ALIVE. awesome i love you bon jovi.
I hope a rabid skunk attacks you.
As for your anger issues. If you need better discipline, join the military. Hell even the Canadian military might do some good. Although let's be honest. There is no such thing as a Canadian military. However it's good you think you're gonna be fine. Always good to look at things in a positive outcome. I am usually pretty negative about things.
Originally posted by Kaibsi used to freak right the **** out over every little thing, get angry, and just break some shit.
I hope a rabid skunk attacks you.As for your anger issues. If you need better discipline, join the military. Hell even the Canadian military might do some good. Although let's be honest. There is no such thing as a Canadian military. However it's good you think you're gonna be fine. Always good to look at things in a positive outcome. I am usually pretty negative about things.
i havent once needed to take my anger out on anything this year.
shiz, i've barely even bitched.
but i do always look for an upside.
and canada's military had to come in and save america's ass both in WW2 and iraq, we didnt have to help out, but america was all "OH HELP US STRONG CANADIANS, CURLING AND HOCKEY ARE SO MANLY" So eat it, b*tch.
Originally posted by Dave_97
i used to freak right the **** out over every little thing, get angry, and just break some shit.i havent once needed to take my anger out on anything this year.
shiz, i've barely even bitched.but i do always look for an upside.
and canada's military had to come in and save america's ass both in WW2 and iraq, we didnt have to help out, but america was all "OH HELP US STRONG CANADIANS, CURLING AND HOCKEY ARE SO MANLY" So eat it, b*tch.
Fool please. Canada jumped in because people forgot they were even still a country. As for the military if you aren't at least Airborne you're not a soldier in my eyes. (And that's referring to the Army only) As for hockey. Well. I love hockey so you won't get a negative response out of me there. Just don't lie to yourself about it. It's okay man. You guys will always have maple syrup and Terrance and Phillip.
I used to also have crazy anger issues. Which is why I'm glad I played sports as a kid. It enabled me to destroy things legally. But yes, being angry gets you nowhere literally, and it only usually makes you look like a douche. Plus your blood pressure will go up and you'll eventually have a stroke and be either, a zombie, or you'll just die. So no good can come of that.
Originally posted by Kaibs>implying that no good comes from being a zombie.
Fool please. Canada jumped in because people forgot they were even still a country. As for the military if you aren't at least Airborne you're not a soldier in my eyes. (And that's referring to the Army only) As for hockey. Well. I love hockey so you won't get a negative response out of me there. Just don't lie to yourself about it. It's okay man. You guys will always have maple syrup and Terrance and Phillip.I used to also have crazy anger issues. Which is why I'm glad I played sports as a kid. It enabled me to destroy things legally. But yes, being angry gets you nowhere literally, and it only usually makes you look like a douche. Plus your blood pressure will go up and you'll eventually have a stroke and be either, a zombie, or you'll just die. So no good can come of that.
Originally posted by Dave_97
>implying that no good comes from being a zombie.
>implying that zombies don't kick ass.
They may kick ass, but the type of zombie like thing I'm referring to is no such thing. Plus zombies always are the ones who end up losing in the end. So don't kid yourself. When the zombie apoc happens. I will definitely not be losing.