it is pointless, yes.
i personally would like to live in a house that didnt have ripped up trash all over both front and back yards. a house that didnt have a spare room full of cat shit because im not allowed to clean it. a house that didnt have those foul smells of rotting food.
but i do get told that "its not your house, its mine, so you dont need to worry about what state its in" Yeah.. thats all good and well and all... but.. theres a room in the basement, with cat shit in it... and your idea of cleaning this mound of easily 15 pounds of shit, was to close the door and tell me im not allowed to clean it.
is she just mental retarded. i do wonder.
i will gladly do all the work. but... even as her favorite child. and having worked as a janitor for a few years, infact ive never had a job where i wasnt doing some sort of cleaning. and im pretty good at it given how i learned from her father whos been doing it for nearly his whole life. the man is in his 70s here. his day job is to clean offices and he does it ****ing well.
but somehow, on some level, Its better to leave it the way it is, than to even try to improve things. Things that are easily improved.
and ive tried. ive tried doing it behind her back. i was nearly kicked out for throwing away garbage. like... empty food packages and shit.
she doesnt even want us scooping the litter box, its nearly a crime.
Yup. Thats my house. the roof is literally flying off the garage right now. will it be taken care of? nope.
my family is easily the white trash on my street. okay i shouldnt say that.
my mother is the white trash on the street. beer cans in the neighbors yard from her parties. and proud.
my sister and i tried to stage a coup d'etat. It didnt work.
cause the house is in her name. and we cant afford to take over all the bills.
iuno. i needed my vent. its been a while since ive said anything about it.
jackie and i, The sister who i used to loath. have been talking about becoming roommates, just so we can move out.
anyone else would see this as sad. i see it as what it is, a few steps up.
at least we'd have no dog.
Originally posted by Dave_97
cause the house is in her name. and we cant afford to take over all the bills.iuno. i needed my vent. its been a while since ive said anything about it.
jackie and i, The sister who i used to loath. have been talking about becoming roommates, just so we can move out.
anyone else would see this as sad. i see it as what it is, a few steps up.
at least we'd have no dog.