Originally posted by rudester
Because I spent half a year with a person and they chose someone else, someone lesser than me. And the best way to get back at someone is to be great, in this case workout and dress better and be better in every dame way.
Hm.
Whoever it is, he/she won't care. Human beings are lower in life than a disease that kills a pregnant woman and the child she carries.
Human beings can't comprehend something like that.
Imagine, you're better looking than his/her boyfriend/girlfriend, they know you're smarter, more capable, better looking, you're better at pleasing them, you've got more money. It won't even be possible for them to consider any of that, the truth will be blotted out.
THAT SAID, what you're doing will benefit you in so many ways. Say you improve your physique, say you look like a lean, smooth muscled stud, Brad Pitt with a bigger schlong. Trust me, there's better game out there.
Back when I was fat this girl loved me for absolutely no reason, she had no reason to other than the fact that she was extremely easy to impress I guess. She's getting married, which pretty much eliminates any hope for me. But if I see in six weeks, which I hope to, I will weigh 140 pounds, about 60 pounds less than the last time I saw her, which has more than made me unrecognizable, especially considering what I am wearing now versus then. I will have sculpted my entire body and for what? There's not a chance in hell a her HUSBAND won't be there, there's little chance she will be there, and if her husband is there I'm too smart to think that she'll remember or care enough to even consider me, and me trying to throw myself at here will get me kicked out and achieve nothing. So what will I do? I'll just be as nice as I can be if I do see her, nice to her friends, I'm going to be as respectful and out-going as I can, I'm going to be as selfless and giving as I can, because she was already nice.
That's what relationships are all about, not the GETTING of someone, or the IMPRESSING of someone. That's miserable and USELESS work. Loving someone is GIVING and expecting NOTHING. Loving is sacrifice, it's giving them your all, everything you DON'T want to give, to genuinely show affection. That is what is valuable to a person, how much actually care about them.
In the end, love is either insanity (if not given back, and you're wittingly being used) or masochism (if normal). Pick your favorite.
In rural Siberia, Russian and American model scouts scour remote villages in search of teenage girls to satisfy the Japanese market's unquenchable thirst. For poor, pretty farm girls, the promise of work abroad signifies the rare chance for a new life. David Redmon and Ashley Sabin's provocative documentary explores this dark, seldom-seen segment of the modeling industry through two primary subjects.
Ashley used to be a model in the United States. Now she's a professional scout who is conflicted over the fact that her livelihood depends on recruiting the youngest girls possible based on promises that aren't always realized. Nadya is a 13-year-old country girl from Novosibirsk, Siberia, who embodies the particular kind of youthful innocence so highly sought-after in Japan. Hoping to help support her tight-knit family, she travels to Tokyo, but once there, she finds the frustrating reality of how jobs are booked is much different from what she expected.
im about to watch this documentary mmm
Originally posted by rudester
Because I spent half a year with a person and they chose someone else, someone lesser than me. And the best way to get back at someone is to be great, in this case workout and dress better and be better in every dame way.
Though, if they were really lesser than you, why would your ex-partner have chosen them over you? hmm
Now throughout my whole life the one constant that has been increasingly apparent to me is how snobby and stingy everyone around me is. People are stingy, and that's why a lot of people are alone their whole lives. Because people are filthy useless trash.
I wish I could multiply the balance in my bank account exponentially.
Originally posted by Dolos
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One of my favorite movies, I guess we'd have one thing in common eventually...