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CONSOOOM!!!

Do everything the government and society tells you to do you worthless sheep!

Well yeah but I get to be with my hubby and it would involve sex so shhhhh

We haven't had sex yet.

This is such a different relationship than all of my previous relationships. Everything seems new to me and I'm excited and terrified at the same time

For **** sakes

Can I ask you a relationship question?

When you are out in public and you spot your girl checking out another guy intensely. Do you get jealous?

Then as you depart and go your separate ways, you notice your girl walking the same route she saw the guy heading. Do you get angry?

I know that in every beginning of a relationship there is this grace period when you are allowed to see other people because it not official yet---however, is this behavior warranted?

I forgot how jealous I can get and possessive

Originally posted by rudester
When you are out in public and you spot your girl checking out another guy intensely. Do you get jealous?

I used to get super jealous and possessive and all that got me was one relationship after another flying into the side of a mountain, so I switched tactics.

Not only do I not get tilted when she looks at another guy (or girl or trans) I feel ok because at the end of the day I know she's with me because she wants to be.

Originally posted by rudester Then as you depart and go your separate ways, you notice your girl walking the same route she saw the guy heading. Do you get angry?

I'd be curious as to the coincidence, but I wouldn't suspect foul play. At least not until there was significant evidence suggesting otherwise.

Originally posted by rudester
I know that in every beginning of a relationship there is this grace period when you are allowed to see other people because it not official yet---however, is this behavior warranted?

Not sure about that one, we weren't exclusive until well into our relationship, she had friends (fcuk-buddies) and some of them were into me as well so I'd indulge because when in Rome and all that.

See that's what love does to your head, you over think everything, analyze it to death, and then you end up miserable.

Well when it comes to real relationships I'm fairly new to them. I have a few under my belt but they are all so different from the next.

With this relationship we are almost the same age. We have a previous history together as friends and so I can't treat it like just any other relationship.

I have come to distrust and hate the new relationship euphoria feeling, it's false advertising and once it wears off and everything goes to shit like it always does you feel 10x worse than you could have if you would have just been normal and kept your expectations low.

Hell yeah I'm jaded and will never let myself get like that again, and if you were smart you'd be wise to armor up and watch your back. There's only so much emotional trauma the heart can take before it can't feel anything anymore, don't be that guy.

True that. With everything changing around me I don't know which way is up anymore! My parents want to move far away because my brother wants to buy a property in the middle of nowhere.

So much pressure, I am just tired of being alive.

Hey you got this far, only fair to make life tired of you.