To be single or not to be single

Thats a lovely shade of pea soup you've become...

It's all your doing.

Seems I'll have to get a different brush.

Or use the chocolate spread instead of the pesto.

Originally posted by Gundark
My brother always says being single means you can sit on the kitchen floor, naked, and eat spaghetti with your fingers. But its also nice to go out for spaghetti with someone else. And have some really good wine too.

I prefer being in a relationship and it's not just because I dont have to go out and pull to get laid! They both have there pros and cons. I'm married, its my 2nd marriage and there are things I've enjoyed and hated about both. Then again being single I could do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted but occassionaly it's lonely.

Single definitely has its ups and downs, no doubt about it.

thats why i'm both in a relationship and not in a relationship. the girl i'm seeing has been my girl for about 10 years now... we have done what was said by many to be impossible.... we're best friends that have sex. if i want to go out to dinner or a movie i call her up. i do truly love this girl... but i also love another girl i know... in a different state that i've known since i was a kid... she lives in new jersey and i go there 2x a year and she visits me... when jersey visits my local girl just hangs out with her other friends... it has been like this for over a year and things are going smooth... i must say i really like my situation... if only it can last. they both know and are cool with each other but do not want to meet each other... i gots love to go around

I used to think that being in a relationship was everything, like it would be wrong to be alone. But recently I have discovered that I much prefer being single. I'm able to do whatever I want, whenever I want and I don't have to worry about anyone in the process. It's just nice. Kind of selfish in a way, but it's still nice. 🙂

So you all say that you are able to do whatever you want whenever you want when your single. So when you were in a relationship you couldnt?
Aside from cheating on you bf or gf I dont see whats so restraining. But this is not my area.

why not?
you make it sound like you aren't allowed to say anything here 😕

Originally posted by Kes
So you all say that you are able to do whatever you want whenever you want when your single. So when you were in a relationship you couldnt?
Aside from cheating on you bf or gf I dont see whats so restraining. But this is not my area.

also when your single, you dont have to worry about what they are doing, wondering if they're cheating on you as well.

True.

yerss> Thats not what I mean. Forget.

bf> Well thats a sad way to see things 😖

As long as you're in a relationship where you completely trust each other you shouldn't have a problem.

Originally posted by Kes
yerss> Thats not what I mean. Forget.

bf> Well thats a sad way to see things 😖

the sadway is usually the truthfull way.

so what if they cheat... you need to set a policy that its allowed. if allowed its not cheating... besides its greedy to keep your love to just one woman

Originally posted by happy kine
so what if they cheat... you need to set a policy that its allowed. if allowed its not cheating... besides its greedy to keep your love to just one woman

🙄

I hope condoms are a regular here.

happy> But then you are monogamous.

.....according to you.