Suicide

I agree. I'm sorry to hear about your friend, Lance.

Suicide is wack. 2 bad bout your pal. I wish Tired Hiker were here to give some more tips as he's always got the answers

It's ok TH.

Yey, he's here!!!!

yo that sucks dude :😖hakes head:: i hate hearing about suicides, really makes me think about what happened to the person in their life that made it come to that. I'm sorry to hear this.

by today, do you mean Today today, or yesterday?
anyways, sorry lance. 🙁
how about you make a thread and put a picture of your friend instead of going to his funeral? then we can join you.

Today as in 9/23/2003.

I don't have a picture of him.

Originally posted by LanceWindu
A few hours ago my mom called me up from Tennessee, she said my sister called her from Carson City Nevada.

My sister said to tell me that a good friend of mine, named Ryan had committed suicide earlier today.

Well, it's not a confirmed suicide yet, my sister was told by two different people he's dead or he's in a coma.

I can't believe he did this! I knew he was depressed after his girlfriend, another friend of mine named Brandi, dumped him earlier this year.

If I know him as good as I think I do, he followed through completely with his death. He never quit anything he started.

And the worse thing is, if he is dead, I can't go to his funeral since I don't have any way to get to Carson City, no money and no car.

I'm sad now. 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁

Thats heavy 🙁 *hugs* But till you get confirmation you dont know.
I mean when my cousin had a car accident, she was fine but a friend of my sister that knows my cousin called her saying he had heard my cousin was in a coma...so. Stuff gets altered to the worst so wait till you know for sure. Cant you call his family?

I have to absolutely agre with Lindsay on this one.

Sorry, Lance.

This girl i was talking with on my email siad that no one liked her and that she was going to commit suicide, and boy did i give her a talking to 😠

Then you had better hope she was not serious.

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry.

*hugs Lance extra hard*

I'm sorry to hear that lance 🙁

I'm sorry Lance

well lance, I'm sorry to hear it too,

I agree with linds for the most part but I think suicide CAN POSSIBLY IN SOME SITUATIONS create more problems than it solves.

But wether or not that is the case here I don't know

and secondly I won't judge anyone who commits suicide, cause we have no right judging another man's decision when it does not affect us

Sorry to hear about your bad news LW.

suicide is a foolish and selfish resort.

I don't think we can judge it BF

Originally posted by BackFire349
suicide is a foolish and selfish resort.

Amen

And sorry bout the bad new lance

i am in no way judging lances friend, but from what lance said in this thread, he just broke up with his gf, that is the LEAST reasonable reason to commit suicide. everyone gets their heart broken, its part of growing up and becomming emotionally mature. It is indeed tragic, but that doesnt change the fact that its a very selfish act to commit. (im aware that when you are in a suicidal state of mind, you dont think logically and that other peoples feelings are your last worries) even if it isnt conciously selfish, it is.