Now give it a stir: The queeq and Edna thread

Started by ratcat7 pages

Yep, that's me, Pathetic...

OK, this isn't turning out as expected.

Look you were the one who was arguing over who was more pathetic the other day so dont go trying to convince me that you arent!

Yes, I'm just a sad and pathetic little man with no life, no hope and no future.

Go, kick me while I'm down, you know you want to... 😛

Sorry, when was I mean?

Hey! I was only joking! Im sorry! I never meant to hurt your feelings! Really I didnt!

Ow! Ow! Oooowwwwww!

Stop it! I never know when you are really upset and when you are joking! Its not funny!

You;ve never considered the possibility that it's both, Edna?

😛 🤣 😛

Serious can someone be joking and serious at the same time?

Beyond me, I'm just the neighbourhood depressive.

Yeah, actually, but it's kind of complex... but I don't want to assume what RC is doing...

Yes RC! Ive noticed!

... but I;m willing to bet it's both, because that's what I do...

I'm in a happy place right now.

Ush do you do it on purpose or does it just happen. Out of your control?

Um... it's hard to describe in the confines of the forum... RC, do you think we can give her a basic grounding in how depression works? And what a depressed person does about it?

Not really, it just happened to me and it took 2 years to ID the reasons, and even then they weren't 100%. It's taken me 2 years so far to get my life back into some kind of order and it's ongoing.

I don't think any two peoples depression are the same. I was diagnosed as suffering from Clinical Depression about 22 months ago. I spent some time on Anti-depressants but took myslef of them when my weight ballooned up to over 20 1/2 stone. Since then I've battled by weight back down to just over 17 stone, which is the lightest I've been for over 10 years.

Anyway, depression is a complex and needs to be monitored very closely. You can go off the dep end very easily and it's also easy to slip back into a depressive mindset for silly reasons. I guess that's why people find it hard to understand. That's about all I can tell you.

Nice brief there, RC.

Anyhow, so my point waa that a depressed person could easily end up joking about something that is extrmeely serious to him