eristole
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403 ... there are lots of things you can talk to guys about that are "icebreakers and surebets"
finding out which one works for you is the hardest thing.
for example.
I was hanging out at a bar the other day, and this really nice blonde comes up and starts talking to me. now it's not so much "WHAT" you say.
as how you say it, going up saying saying hi, and then askin a question or saying something nice, is all good. But if that's as far as you have thought ahead it makes an odd silence, and that freaks people out.
say something nice, about what you like about him for starters.
like, say you like his hair, walk up and get his attention, smile and then say something really nice about his hair, once they accept the comment with a thank you or, maybe some kind of a response, ask him something else, they key is to find something he's interested in and get him talking about it, so it doesnt seem like you are doing all the talking. that makes it easier to talk and things flow alot better.
~just some random advice from someone who's been there.
ps. that blonde, she must have had all of that conversation thought out ahead of time, because she was really really cool to talk to and for some reason, we got drunk as all hell and the last thing i remember about that night was her singing opera style while sitting on my lap and hte whole bar was clapping.. i dunno but that was a really bad time to black out and not remember what happened next i think.