Originally posted by must_kill_Santa
in England the government discriminate against Homosexual activity
Blimey, it's not THAT bad. Inequality does exist- as with everywhere- but there are far worse places to be than the UK and the Labour Government has done a ton of equality work for them- like equalising the age of consent. It's a start.
The reason lesbians might want so-called 'butch' women is that just because a woman likes other women, it does not necessarily mean she wants her lover to fulfill all the normal stereotypes of what a woman is. For example, a woman can be a lesbian but still be submissive, in which case she will want a more assertive lover.
Such 'butch' lesbians are not consciously trying to look like men- they are simply rejecting the female steerotype and saying that anything men can do, they can do as well if they so wish (within common sense limits). Why NOT dress like men, have hair like men, or even act like men? They can do what they want, why should such behaviour be considered to be man only? Only to an outsider does this appear to be trying to be 'like a man'. As far as they are concerned it is expressing their own identity, and if the world thinks that is behaviour reserved for men only then that is the world's problem, from where they sit.
Right, a true transexual, Celsius, is someone who has the brain of one sex but the body of another. Of course, such things are rarely absolute so it would be more accurate to say that you had a brain with some traits of the opposite sex.
If it is not like that and you are dressing up in clothes of the opposite sex just because you like it, that is being a transvestite, not a transsexual, and that you do as you simply get a kick out of it.
As I say before, most lesbians who look, to outsiders, like men, are NOT trying to look like men! They are just presenting themselves in a way you do not normally associate with women- breaking the stereotype.
Originally posted by Celsius
Answering the question in your 2nd post:Its hard to explain, you have to feel it.
Euphoria, my man. When you hold that person, you feel........like your holding an angel. You know the butterflies you get in your gut? You get that feeling, but its like 100 times better and more powerful. Youre always in a good mood, like......nothing can ruin your day. Even thinking about that person makes everything seem......good.
No matter what, thhat person can make EVERYTHING better, by just being there. Knowing thhat they ffeel the same way tripples that feeling.I hope I got it right.
Thats what it feels like to love a person 😉.
-long sigh- 😍 Celsius I couldn't have said it better myself.
Damn I miss those feelings....................