'Believing' in net relationships is a vague term- obviously they exist, but they are simply not the same as real life ones. As Lindsay says, you don't really know the person until you meet, and I speak from experience here.
Net relationships are absolutely great- so long as you do not confuse them with real ones, they are not as strong as a real one. A net girlfriend is more a fun pal than an actual girlfriend. A net relationship is, however, probably the absolute best way to prepare for a real one.
Originally posted by BackFire349
I don't see how you could have a net relationship, it seems like it would be hell to be in love with someone you could'nt actually be with.
Ush was right with what he said. You're really only very good friends who have some sexual feelings between each other until you meet.
Well in my definition, as far as this topic is concerned, sexual feelings to me just mean anything more then just a friendship which would include those romantic feelings. Which yes I do agree, it's gotta be a terrible thing not being able to be with that person. My favorite thing to do is cuddle 馃槉 with the person that I am romantically involved with and it would be terrible not to be able to do that 馃檨
Yea it seems like it would be hard iv never actually had one before.
But as for saying that u cant love someone without meeting them i knew**in person** this guy from CT who i used to talk to all the time and i thought hed be great for my friend so i gave her his email address and they started dating because they liked eachother even tho they had never met. They still talked on the phone and on the net. When they finally did meet they felt like they had known eachother forever and they could actually be themselve because they didnt have that aquired feeling like u do on a blind date.So i dont see the dif. between that and a net relationship
Originally posted by GambitEVOFan1
Yea it seems like it would be hard iv never actually had one before.But as for saying that u cant love someone without meeting them i knew**in person** this guy from CT who i used to talk to all the time and i thought hed be great for my friend so i gave her his email address and they started dating because they liked eachother even tho they had never met. They still talked on the phone and on the net. When they finally did meet they felt like they had known eachother forever and they could actually be themselve because they didnt have that aquired feeling like u do on a blind date.So i dont see the dif. between that and a net relationship
Difference is they met and still liked each other. Many times people who were crazy about each other meet and... nothing
You cannot fall in love with someone you have not met. That is just how it is. Romantic feelings are not love.