i think it's funny that we are all 14 !! 😄
but i have a question maby you guys can help me out
if got a friend but she's always thinking about suicide what can i do because she is my best friend and i don't want to lose hear
sorry i know it's a pyro board but i just want to know what you guys think what i can do
hmmm... try and talk to her, ask her what is the purpose, what hurts her so much that she wants to commit suicide, IF she will tell you (it will take time, she may not tell you at all, and i'm talkin bout the true purpose, not just the excuse she will tell you first) try to talk about it with her, find the reason, and the way to change it be nice, but not too nice cuz she will feel that you are unnatural and stiffy, buy her ice cream or chocolate but don't try too hard to make her happy, it doesn't work. the main rule is TALK. talk about everything, let you opinion and the whole whole conversation be unbiased so she will learn not to take sides when she has got problems, if it still won't work, send her to me. good luck
debby: tell her the truth how you feel about the whole situation, about her family and her 'future suicide' don't lie to her, don't make fake smiles and tell her that everythin's gonna be ok cuz it's obvious that it WON'T be ok ask ker about her feelings, listen carefully and be PATIENT don't get nervous if she will close herself from everybody. try to show her the positive sides of life, try to make her happy but don't try too hard as i already said, she will feel uncomfortable and close herself even more. DO NOT talk about a theraphy with her, even if you think she should go see a doctor. she will go when she will feel the need, if you will talk about it she will feel like you were makin a psycho from her and wanted her to leave you alone. i cannot give you a better advice right now because i don't know the chick.