Why do we hate???

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Why do we hate???

I have just had a really bad fight with a friend...

And now we are not friends...

It is so ****** up on the mean things someone can say to someone...

WHY DO WE HATE???

excellent thread i must say. hate is in everyone.

hmmm machiavelli said something like hate can be gained through both good and bad deeds.

I dont particulary hate, since its quite a strong feeling. However, when my tempers flare, and boy do they ever, i say a lot of things which i dont mean and other's dont deserve. Its an emotion i have to work on.

there are different kinds of hate.
hate as in "i hate cheese"
or hate as in "i hate u, u stupid mother ****er burn in hell"
or "i really hate u, but u still a good person"

lol

If something does something to you that you don't like then it is by nature you'll have certain dislike for that person.

not really pablo. if something does something to you that you dontlie then it is by nate that you might still like that person. for example: someone kicks ur nuts (acciendtly). you can forgive that person. someone kicks ur nuts (not by accident) then u have a choice to either dislike or still be cool with that person. and last example is that someone bombs someone elses country...then u know what happens.

We hate because we are human. It is a normal function. If you hate something and go ballistic, okay, go with it, ride it out. Just don't hurt anyone or yourself.

Inciteful tired hiker. The most important thing is honesty if you're angry don't try to hide it, but know why you are angry and meditate on it and you just may realize "Oh shit! I'm all pissed over nothin." And if you do you just become a better person for it. 😉

I like that. 🙂

One day I thought to myself (not meditating) what is anger?, and I couldn't come up with an answer that suited my conscious self

After that day anger became a detached emotion like it wasn't apart of who I was anymore.
It was the wierdest day I've ever had.

equatable to watching the ocean waves on a bad high or an acid trip

I got into a horrendous fight with my best friend and we did not speak or see eachother for 2 whole years! 🙁

I hate this girl in college well every1 does in my group shes a *****

Originally posted by Tex
I got into a horrendous fight with my best friend and we did not speak or see eachother for 2 whole years! 🙁

I hope that doesn't happen to me...

But there is a great chance it might last that long or even longer 😕

Well, people define normal by their standards - what is not like us is not normal. We may not say it but we feel it that way.
From then on - we feel some teeny-weeny "mental hurt or aggravation" when people do things not like we would or do things that are counter-productive for our well-being. Add repetitiveness and add familiarity (this is why you have more fights with friends than strangers).
It is very normal to be that way too.

For these reasons, personally, I am a very moderate person (net, work, ect...). Some people at work talk all the time. I put my discman on, ect...
It's the ol'your freedom stops when you step on someone else's routine...

Oh, almost forgot, some people are sons of bitches too...

i h8...

CAM, MB and ME

whos ME?

lol I still belive that most ppl who say they hate someone have no idea what hatred truly is cause it is very very very powerful
and ppl throw that word around far too often

i dont hate anyone... i dislike some people...

fire that was beautiful BUT i there are different kinds of "hate" like i have mentioned before. Napoleon BOnaparte hated Britain. really hated Britain....