Would you rather.....

Here is a kind of a interesting question...

Erm..noone likes being cheated on right? So...what would you rather have your partner tell you after a lifetime of being together:

''I've never cheated on you, but I've never loved you''

or

''I've cheated on you, but I've always loved you''

And there isnt a third option...if you could get any of these two answers, which one would you rather get...and these answers being the truth!

Then I would rather like to hear that he cheated on me but always loved me then to hear him say that he never cheated on me but never loved me either.

i agree, after a lifetime of love to find out that it is unresipricated would just kill a man

Yeah...same for me! 👆
But the point this is kind of raising is that, many people leave their partner after they find out that they have been cheated on...but if given this choice, they would pick the love one...

but why would they cheat on you if they honestly love you? I suppose the 2nd one, but then I'd have to leave them cuz if they planned to cheat on me they shouldnt have married me

Thats the point though...sometimes, lust takes over, people make mistakes, sometimes they dont think....so they sleep with someone else...

I dont mean to sound horrible or anything, but you dnt need to ''love'' someone, to have sex with them....😕

I know what you mean, I just dont see why someone would want to do that knowing they'd hurt thier spouse 🙁

I know....🙁

The love one 🙄

Definitly the latter, as long as it isint serious, and I know they do love me, I dont really care what they do.

I wouldn't mind the cheating that hard, if I was sure she still loved me and if I was sure it was like a one night stand with someone she'll never meet again after that

No..me neither actually! I know it shoulds really odd, but i wuldnt mind cheating if the person truly loved me, rather than other way arround...😕

Depends with who, and how many times really.
But i prefer to be loved and cheated on if it's once or so then to never be loved, but never be cheated on because then it's like you really are being cheated on and lied to.

i don't like boys yet, but i'd rather(in the future) have him say the second one, atleast it's truethful 😖mart:

you dont like boys 😱 how can you live 😮
and the first one is much much worse if you yourself really loved the person 🙁

Oh Silver...😄

But yeah, i agree with you on that one... but some people perfer however to live i lie i suppose 😕

If you loved someone you wouldnt cheat on them.

Thats a hard one lil. 😑

Originally posted by saucybird007
If you loved someone you wouldnt cheat on them.

Thats a hard one lil. 😑

Imo its quite possible, theres a diffrence between love and lust, and the latter can form even if the first is present for someone else.

Originally posted by lil bitchiness
Oh Silver...😄

But yeah, i agree with you on that one... but some people perfer however to live i lie i suppose 😕

😮

🙂