Has anyone ever been in love?

Started by Mistique13 pages

Now that I recap, I relies my love life is a really sad story...

WELL IF YOU DO GO WITH THIS GIRL, DONT HURT HER FEELINGS CUZ I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE PLAYED. MOST OF THE BOYS I WENT WITH JUST WANTED ME IN BED AND IM NOT THAT TYPE OF GIRL. AND THEY WERE CUTE. SO KNOW WHEN A CUTE BOY ASK ME OUT I TAKE TO LONG TO TELL THEM THE ANSWER CUZ IM SCARED TO BE PLAYED. HEY WHAT DO I EXPECT IM IN HIGH SCHOOL IN NEW YORK. WELL THE BAD PART OF KNEW YORK. IF YALL EVERY GO TO NEWYORK QUEENZ DONT GO TO BEACHCHANNEL OR FARROCK. I TELL YOU THIS RIGHT NOW. ❌

Originally posted by BLACKANGEL
WELL IF YOU DO GO WITH THIS GIRL, DONT HURT HER FEELINGS CUZ I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE PLAYED. MOST OF THE BOYS I WENT WITH JUST WANTED ME IN BED AND IM NOT THAT TYPE OF GIRL. AND THEY WERE CUTE. SO KNOW WHEN A CUTE BOY ASK ME OUT I TAKE TO LONG TO TELL THEM THE ANSWER CUZ IM SCARED TO BE PLAYED. HEY WHAT DO I EXPECT IM IN HIGH SCHOOL IN NEW YORK. WELL THE BAD PART OF KNEW YORK. IF YALL EVERY GO TO NEWYORK QUEENZ DONT GO TO BEACHCHANNEL OR FARROCK. I TELL YOU THIS RIGHT NOW. ❌
CAPS LOCK 😉

Not to sound sexist but byfar women are the most controling creatures on the planet.

Secondly the fact of the matter is men always want you in bed. You just have to find the one that loves you in or outta bed. 🙂

Lastly they are judeing you on a "physical" level but then again so are you. Even you said "WHEN A CUTE BOY ASK ME OUT...."

I've been in love a few times in my life... three times, I guess, that were really love. (The other times being either lust or infatuation... just to give you an idea of where I'm coming from, I probably had about 12 girlfriends in my life; maybe half of them semi-serious, three of them really serious, the rest, nah...)

The one that gave me the most heart-ache was the one I knew the longest. (Let's call her "Mary".) She and I had known each other since we were 5 years old, and she lived in another city. Our parents were friends, and every few years they'd come to visit, and I'd fall for her all over again. Of course, when you're a kid, it's just friendship/puppy love, but when I saw her when I was 18, I was TOTALLY head-over-heals in love with her. I had it BAD. I was so heart-sick it was stupid. Flowers, the works... I even paid my family's way to drive 500 miles to go visit her and her family for a week. Trouble was, she didn't feel the same way about me... she ended up breaking my heart, but over time I realized it wasn't her fault... it was my own. I'll tell you, at that time I thought I'd never love anyone else again, at least not to that extent. The good news is, I DID fine someone else... I didn't meet her until about 6 years later, but it was well worth the wait. (And now I've been married to her for almost 14 years... 🙂 )

The funny thing is, I'll always love "Mary". And my wife understands. There will always be a small spot in my heart for her, and that feeling of love for her will never fade, I don't think. BUT, the rest of my heart belongs to my wife, and I love her completely... to the point that I will never endanger our relationship, even if "Mary" showed up at my door tomorrow begging me to run away with her.

Ah, I'm dragging on, here. My real point, I guess, is don't lose hope if you find that the one you've fallen in love with doesn't return the feeling. If it doesn't work out, you WILL fall in love again, someday, and it CAN be just as good. (It will be different... but just as good. That first love will always be special...) That's it, I guess. Hope you're not all asleep.

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I thought I was in love once, it was probably just a schoolyard crush though.
I don't have relationships, I don't trust people enough. But then you wouldn't trust people if every time anyone had ever shown an interest in you it was a part of a joke or a dare 🙁

I cant say i have ever been in love. Yeah i have liked the guys ive been with a lot but i cant say i 'Loved' them. 🙁

Is that a bad thing?? 😕 😑

nah,i's the same.i can't stand it when ppl think tt evry relationship they go thru is a "love' relationship too *pukes*

guess what i found out??Chocolate contains phenylethylamine -- the same chemical your rain produces when you fall in love.
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😂 thats funny. 😂

Yeah i hate it to when ppl have been goin out for like a week and they go on about how much they are in love! Please, they prob dont even know what the word means!! 😂

EXACTLY!!!! *whew* i'm not the only one😄

Hell no, i totally agree with you! 😄

😄 damn really those kind of people reaaally sicken me!!!and also the one's who go "oh no,i don't hv a boyfriend!!!i need to get one!!!"
or those who hv jus broke up who go "oh no now i've got no bf!!!"
*pukes*

😘 its making me cringe just talking about it! 😂

😆 woohoo ive found another girl with the same opinion as me!!!! high 5😄😄

*high 5* 😂

well atleast i know i'm not the only great mind out there 😎

ive been in love but it was a failure!!!!!!!!
so now i dont fall for anybody and just have flings!!!

Originally posted by bLooMiLiCioUs
well atleast i know i'm not the only great mind out there 😎

😂 😛

I was really really in love a couple of times. All my feelings were multiplicated a thousand of times.

I could give my life for their lifes. But now they are only memories and I didn't love my last girlfriends.

It is perfect to be in love, and It is not necessary to forget of ourselves to give without expecxting to receive. 😛

😑 nah i think i'd rather go on with my flings😉

arent you sweet Corlindel. 🙂