Okay, from an older guy's perspective...
When I was in my teens I'll admit it liked looking at porn... because, hell, your hormones are going nuts, and let's face it, porn is aimed pretty much exclusively at appealing to the "guy's point of view".
The problem is that porn is not a real reflection of how most women feel about sex. I learned this through my teens from reading, and from experience. I think most intelligent guys can figure that out for themselves, but sometimes I wonder. Personally, I have never met a stable, 'normal' woman who liked sex the way it is portrayed in porn. I'm not going to go into detail, but I think any guy with experience will agree with me. (As will most women.) I'm not saying that applies to all women, but I would estimate it does for a good 95%.
My opinion is that for women, sex is much more of a special thing... more intimate, more of a commitment, than it is for most guys. Ladies, what do you say?
Originally posted by BidMyBlood2Run
I agree. In a study 65% of men were unahappy with their sex lives because porn created this image what sex was like in porn which they watched all the time, and it wasn't like that and they get disapointed.
Porn is fake.
There you go! I think one of the things that causes this is that people don't read as much as they used to. (No, not Penthouse Letters... I mean REAL literature...) I learned a LOT about what makes for good love-making right in my school library. (And I ain't talking biology/physiology text books...) 😉
Originally posted by Skywa|ker
There you go! I think one of the things that causes this is that people don't read as much as they used to. (No, not Penthouse Letters... I mean REAL literature...) I learned a LOT about what makes for good love-making right in my school library. (And I ain't talking biology/physiology text books...) 😉
wow, I am impressed Skywalker
Originally posted by BidMyBlood2Run
wow, I am impressed Skywalker
Well, I'm not trying to sound like I'm bragging, or anything... just passing on what I learned... or more accurately, where I learned. ('Course, I still had a LOT to learn when it came to applying what I'd read... 😆 ) But I think I had a good handle on the female perspective of sex at a relatively young age... (e.g. before I turned 40... 😂 )
Edited to add: DOH! 😱 I just got what you meant. You BAD, girl! 😛