Gee, I'd like to give you a quick answer but it's not remotely possible!
Try to remember the following:
1. You can think you are in love- be utterly, totally convinced- and yet not be.
2. You can be in love and not realise it- or at least not be sure about it.
3. It's almost impossible to 'teach' someone how to tell; you'll have to make your own way.
4. Yes, it IS worth it, so long as you stay sensible...
5.... and keeping your head, staying sensible, and doing the very best you can for your partner is a long way towards keeping it.
Well, that's what I think, anyway.
Oh man! wheres cupid when you need him?
Hey BG! wake up!
Ben is a no good waster. get over him and get on w/ your life.
In other ways.......FIND SOME ONE NEW, SOME ONE BETTER and SOME ONE THAT WILL TREAT YOU LIKE THE PRINCESS YOU ARE.
now that thats cleared up lets get on w/ things and if anyone sees cupid send him BG's way will ya.