Cancer

My thoughts are with her LW. These are indeed sad news.

I'm sorry to hear that LW 🙁 My thoughts and prayers will be with little Madison, I hope she enjoys what time she has left.

Update:

The doctor's contacted my aunt and uncle. He had been talking with a colleague of his and since Madison had a bacterial infection at the time they were doing more blood work, it may have messed up her blood counts.

They say she still has a 30% chance of survival.

My aunt and uncle are fighting right now because my uncle wants to take her back to the hospital for more treatment, my aunt wants nothing to do with it and he will have to do it on his own. My aunt says that the 5% chance she will not come back from the hospital is too much, and if Madison dies she will divorce my uncle and blame her death on him.

The thing is...not taking her back to the hospital is going to kill her. A 5% chance of death is not much at all. Every time you go to the hospital there is a small chance something will go wrong.

force her to go, my mom said she wanted to stay home and stay away from the treatment... that a horrible choice

Well Madison is definately going to go.

He's already told me that is my aunt doesn't want to help their daughter until the end, he will take Maddy away if he needs to and not come back until she's better or they have to bury her.

He would much rather divorce my aunt then let her boss him into forgoing treatment for little Madison.

cry poor girl

My prayers are with her and her family. 🙁 Let's hope for this 30%.

always terrible to see kids having cancer, but there is always hope though even how slim the chances are one can cling on to that hope.

Both my parents died of cancer so I know all about that bloody disease

UPDATE:

I just got a call today from my sister, and she informed me that little Madison had a tumor grow just over the past week, she was rushed to the hospital. The tumor is the size of a grapefruit in her abdomen and there is nothing they can do for her. She was given 1 week - 2 months.

My aunt thinks that since I did so much for them when I was living in their house when it was discovered she had this germ cell cancer, that I should be one of the Paul Bearers at her funeral. To tell you the truth I don't want to have to do that, I want her to live.

Im really sorry about all this, there are situations like this
that make us feel so impotent and weak, I dunno even what to say...
just remember that I'm always there for you if you need me.

Im also sorry for your parents FINTI.
And for all those who loose someone loved.

Originally posted by Maya Zurak
Im really sorry about all this, there are situations like this
that make us feel so impotent and weak, I dunno even what to say...
just remember that I'm always there for you if you need me.

Im also sorry for your parents FINTI.
And for all those who loose someone loved.

Thanks Maya.

Oh, damn...I know words really don't mean much, but I truly feel horrible for you...I can't imagine having to go through something like that. I'm so sorry.

I'm really sorry to hear about it, Lance.

If you ever need anything, holler at your boy. Im here for you.

Sorry Lance Windu that is such a sad thing to go through.. Cancer is one of the few things that really truly scare me in life, since you have no control over it. You can be the nicest person in the world and you can just get hit with it. I really am sorry. Its one thing if a 60 year old person gets it.. they would be able to understand that they have lived a long life and its there time to go. But a kid so young who hasnt even lives is just horrible.

edit: what exactly did that still spot on her leg feel like? was it sorta like a little golfball feeling where its hard and stuff or is it sorta soft and stuff?

It was hard.

Another Update:

I went and saw Maddy (Madison) today and she was crying in pain the majority of the time I was visiting. My uncle thinks she's not going to make it past this weekend for some reason. If anyone in the family could take away her pain and put it on ourselves we gladly would, a young child should not suffer like this.

I'm making it a priority to say goodbye to her and let her know I love her everytime I see her now, you never know when she's going to succumb to this disease.

Oh Lance... I'm so sorry... I hope Madison knows how much you love her, and I hope she enjoys what time she has left cry

I feel so sorry for you, Madison and her family and friends. 🙁

I have been lucky, no close relative or friend of mine has never died.

I hope that she is going to better place...even if I am an atheist.

yeah Lance this is indeed heartbreaking information damn how I hate to see children suffer 🙁 🙁

Yet another update:

Little Madison is getting worse by the day, her liver is starting to shut down. I was just told this about 40 minutes ago. We don't think she's even going to last a couple of more days. I'll be taking time off of work and from KMC when she goes to Heaven, to spend time with family and friends. I'll keep you updated if you like.