Korri, i think that it is obvious by now that you have profound dislike for Monica B which is of course your choice. Now although there have been others who share this sentiment your feelings are far more specific, viv-a-vis HATE.
An emotion designed specifically to overwhelm logic and reason. An emotion which is blinding you from the simple and obvious truth...she can have any man she wants (and even some women) and there's nothing you can do to stop it.