Does this guy like me?

I met this guy threw friends. I've known him for about a year now. From the get go he has flirted with me. Well about 2 months ago he made a move on me and we ended up kissing. A couple minutes into it I pushed away thinking, he was just drunk and horny that night. I didn't want to be part of a one night stand. The next morning he emailed me and said it was a mistake and it will never happend again and that he was just drunk. The thing is I do have feelings for this guy, I have from the moment I saw him. I just want it to be mutual on his side. Not a heat of the moment thing. So I poured my heart out to him in a return email. He said it just shouldn't be. I was crushed. Well ever since then he's been emailing me, calling me, texting me and coming over with friends to hang out. He gets jealous when other guys hit on me. And he still flirts like crazy with me. So I tried to kiss him, and he pushed ME away. I asked him if it'll never happend between me and him and he doesn't answer me. I asked him if I should back off and he just walks away, not answering me. Ok if he was bothered by my feelings for him wouldn't he stop flirting and keeping contact with me as much? I'm confused!!! Help me! One other thing he used to have feelings for my best friend who is always with us. Could this be the problem. She is now married though.

Thats a bit complicated there...it could mean few things.

At first i thought he might be bit unsure because you pushed im off when you were kissing the first time, but after reading your post, i think that this guy is messing you arround. Guys do that.

This guy as far as i see thinks he has you arround his little finger...dont let him get to you. You should stop flirting with him, and see how that goes. As soon as he sees that you are not interested anymore he'll be all over you. Then its your decision if you are going to let him mess you about again or not.

Guys like that think they have it all...their head in the clouds, but people like that usually trip up very quickly and land on their face.

maybe, or maybe he's scarred of commitment, lotta guys are, never bothered me tho

The dude can't make his mind up by the sounds of it.

Do you really want a boyfriend who's like that?

he cant decide can he really

Do you play for Chelsea still? 😉

Originally posted by lil bitchiness
Thats a bit complicated there...it could mean few things.

At first i thought he might be bit unsure because you pushed im off when you were kissing the first time, but after reading your post, i think that this guy is messing you arround. Guys do that.

This guy as far as i see thinks he has you arround his little finger...dont let him get to you. You should stop flirting with him, and see how that goes. As soon as he sees that you are not interested anymore he'll be all over you. Then its your decision if you are going to let him mess you about again or not.

Guys like that think they have it all...their head in the clouds, but people like that usually trip up very quickly and land on their face.

but if you play you have to play completly or it isnt going to work...
act like youve lost complete interest...dont answer mail for days and when you do give no details of your life and DONT inquire about his.

he comes over have some where to off to..miss popularity

if he calls be on the other line and say youll call back and forget to

do this for awhile then top it off by telling a mutual friend you meet someone (no details)

by the time your done youll either have him or truley lost interest in him or both

you know...if he truly wasn't interested other than being drunk and hot...then it's a good bet he ain't interested at all. seems like now he's just playing you like a bad instrument...a guy knows when he wants to be with somebody by the respect he shows for that woman...lose him or get hurt later.

Originally posted by badkittykitty
wow lil when ever I see your post about love and such you take the words out of mouth!!
this is a classic thrill of the chase man...when you lose interest he'll be all over you or leave all together but my bet would be 85% certain he'll profess his love.
either way you win in that case(if you really want him)you'll get him or he can move on and so can you.

but if you play you have to play completly or it isnt going to work...
act like youve lost complete interest...dont answer mail for days and when you do give no details of your life and DONT inquire about his.

he comes over have some where to off to..miss popularity

if he calls be on the other line and say youll call back and forget to

do this for awhile then top it off by telling a mutual friend you meet someone (no details)

by the time your done youll either have him or truley lost interest in him or both

dangerous game BKK, when I want a girl and she starts acting like that I usualy have something from, don't think your all that girl, and I just let her be

in my book ppl who try to avoid me are ppl I don't want a relationship with

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dont answer mail for days and when you do give no details of your life and DONT inquire about his.

he comes over have some where to off to..miss popularity

if he calls be on the other line and say youll call back and forget to
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as I said before this is very dangerous, cause there are guys who have something like, well fine screw you then even if they are in love with someone (me for instance, tho no more worries nowa days 😄)

yes its dangerous cause you can lose but the way he's acting what else can she do.he's already playing by my understanding
if she plays this way she can save face and possibly get her man and if he leaves he will quit pulling her chain and she can move on to greener pastures..she says..

I asked him if it'll never happend between me and him and he doesn't answer me. I asked him if I should back off and he just walks away, not answering me

I'd just tell him what you want, if he doesn't give a straight answer to that just forget about him