Originally posted by shaber
Jedi, are you talking about like with a confessor in the Sword of Truth series who cannot deliberately touch in an excited state?
Actually, I saw this movie with Barbara Streisand and it was about a girl who had never been in a relationship before. She wasn't the type of girl most guys would ask out. But then she meets this guy and they hit it off. They eventually get married, but this guy, who has been married several times before, believes that the physical aspect of a relationship is unnecessary and eventually leads to marital problems (the decline of sex after several years of marriage) So he and the girl agree never to kiss or have sex. Though the girl has agreed to this, she is finding out more and more how hard this agreement has become. She's never been kissed by a guy before and has never experienced intimacy with someone. This, of coarse, causes problems between the two, so they decide to end the marriage. And the girl, who is desperate for love, looses weight, gets in shape, and gets a complete make over. Eventually the guy comes crawling back and they decide to throw out the "no intimcy rule."
I want to choose love, I really do, but to never experience intimacy with someone you love has got to be real killer. I don't know if I could do that. I think sex is very important in a relationship. It's a way of expressing your love. Then again, if you love someone so much, you are willing to give up anything for them.
So, I guess I choose love. 🙁 It can't be that bad, can it?
Re: Love or Lust?
Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
Who would you choose:1. Someone you're hopelessly in love with but could never share intimacy with, such as sex or any form of sex. That's right, no foreplay. None. Zero. Zilch. Nada.
or
2. Someone who knows how to drive you wild and send you in an arousing frenzy, but could never share the deep true emotions of love.
So which is it going to be? Sorry, but its either one or the other. There can be no both. Do you choose the one you love or the one that stimulates your body like you never knew possible? Love or Lust?
love
i should stop digging dewep in the OTF