Between Arwen and Eowyn, probably Eowyn because she plays a bigger part and shows alot of strength in women.
Eowyn's and Faramir's marriage-
Faramir will be the one cooking dinner and Eowyn would go about scouting the lands of Ithilien.
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"Hey Faramir, what's this? *points to the Witch King helmet*"
"Oh just a little something the wife brought home from the pelennor."
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