I usually only have beer if we're having something mexican or hard shell crabs.
I like the Schmirnoff Ice and the Bacardi O3.
Wine too, but not too dry.
And as far as bon bons, I'm not really a big sweet eater. If I'm going to have something chocolate, I want something really good. A good piece of dark chocolate will take of my sweet intake for a month at least.
I give up cheese (which I love) and sweets for Lent and always end up loosing at least 10 pounds. Amazing.