look, it goes like this...if there were two guys who were exactly the same in everything, except that one was hot and the other was ugly...we'd chose the hot guy...and yea, if we got the chance to meet a hot guy and a not so hot guy, we'd probly go for the hot guy...it's natural...but it's not like we have anything against not hot guys...i mean, if u knew a hot guy an a non hot one, a the non hot was was sooo sweet and the hot one was a real jerk...we'd go for the nice one....looks dont matter, it's just if there were real good looks it'd be an extra bonus!
Originally posted by iluvpippin
look, it goes like this...if there were two guys who were exactly the same in everything, except that one was hot and the other was ugly...we'd chose the hot guy...and yea, if we got the chance to meet a hot guy and a not so hot guy, we'd probly go for the hot guy...it's natural...but it's not like we have anything against not hot guys...i mean, if u knew a hot guy an a non hot one, a the non hot was was sooo sweet and the hot one was a real jerk...we'd go for the nice one....looks dont matter, it's just if there were real good looks it'd be an extra bonus!
Originally posted by Evy_O
Oh I don't agree that there are that much couples that are both hot.
You can see VERY often hot guys with really not-hot girls... And the opposite! It happens ALL the time, at least here.And sometimes it's annoying 😛
like i said, 95% of them are shallow as hell. looks and $$$ are all that maters. it took me a long time to find the right one, and she loves me unconditionally. why? beats the hell out of me. a while back her sister in mexico told her that her ex wanted to come here and get her, bring her home and marry her. he is a rich ass pretty boy, making like $90,000 a year. she laughed and said she loved me, and that i was her life. love is a strange thing.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
if you were out looking for a booty call with your friends, you would choose the hottest guy available, REGARDLESS of him being a jerk or not. go ahead and admit it, its ok. i have been witnessing this all my adult years. i have a couple of friends who are real good looking, like movie star good looking. whenever we used to go out, they didnt even have to try. women were all over them. i had to work my ass off just to get 1/4 as many women as they do, and they are just standing there, looking gorgeous!!! even when the women knew i was a swetie who treated his women as if they were a princess, and that my friends would nail them and dump them the next day, the still chose my friends!!!!! so please, dont try and fool us.
yeah thats what im saying...if i was going out looking for guys, id go up to the hot guys for sure....it's natural, i cant help it, i just would....but if i saw two guys there that i knew from school or something...and the hot guy was a real jerk and the not so hot one was really nice, i'd go talk to the not so hot one...i mean, i know some ppl on kmc who arent that attractive, but it doesnt bother me because i met them first...i met them through words, and theyre really nice, the fact that theyre not the hottest guy in the world doesnt bother me at all! basically to sum up what i'm saying...like...i'd probly never go up to an ugly guy and ask him for a dance (apart from the fact that i dont really dance) but id go up to a hot guy and ask him...but like i said before, if i knew both of them and one was real nice and the other was an ass.hole i'd talk to the nicer one, wether he was hot/ugly.
the only ppl that are shallow and only go out with a guy for their looks/money are the people who think/know they're pretty...not mentioning any names, but yeah, some ppl would b like 'ew get away from me' if an ugly guy tried to chat em up...i however would find it really sweet!!! some of my friends are like that, theyre like 'eew, mich that guy tried to ask me out, i was like get away from me' an ill b like 'dont be so mean!' if you knew me, then you'd know that i am not like those ppl at all, i am freinds with practically everyone in our year, yeah there are those ppl who i dont get along with, but thats personality based only, it's got nothing to do with looks, because one of the guys is real hot and has a real good body. yeah, some of us grls are shallow and only looking for good looking guys..but not all of us. 🙁 im offended that you all think 'anyone' who says this is a liar and is just saying that, because as you ca prob see by my long posts in this thred, i feel very strongly about this issue that every1 knows that i am NOT shallow!
RG> Women are as shallow as men 🙄 Do you by any chance claim that men don't go for looks? I have many guy friends, I've heard them discussing about 'chicks'... The words that usually pop in the discussion are "nice butt" or "did you SEE her boobs?"... Now, if that's not shallow then... 😛
Looks are important, but the guy doesn't neccasserily have to be Brad Pitt to be attractive. And please, give us some credit, cause a girl to be hot she HAS to be pretty, whilst there are guys that are not supposed to be the absolute beauties, but are considered sexy.
For example: Al Paccino, Michael Douglas, DePartie (sp?) etc.
It's neither accurate nor fair to generalise; let's just agree that there are shallow people in both sexes. Now, unless you can count how many has each... you cannot judge ✅
Originally posted by yerssot
do have to agree that most women I know are shallow
You have to know them very very very good to say that. Cause many women appear as shallow or cold-hearted as a self defense. Same as men.
I could go on about this topic all day, I like it 😄