that's what HE suggested to me actually. i'm just afraid it will only intensify the sitatution even more. besides, the guy is several years older than me and my dad is against it all, which is really hypocrtical of him because my parents are 20 years apart. anyway, i told my dad that i didn't want to stop talking to HIM and he said its not a matter of what i want. he said he would make it stop and that it WILL end.
i can actually picture have a relationship with the guy, not just over the internet, but in the flesh too. HE lives a few hours away from me so its a major possibility.
i told my dad that he couldn't control every aspect of my life, especially after i turn 18 and he was like, "was that a threat?" i said, "no, just a fact." then he said, "i can control when you're 30 if i want. don't ever tell me what i can and can't do."
god, what the hell was that?
no, i didn't tell him how i really feel about the guy. i'm afraid to. he would just probably freak even more. there was a bunch of screaming and yelling. he even through his coffee mug and it shattered against my closet door. we really have spoken since. its been awkwardly silent in the car and at dinner. we don't even make eye contact.
Originally posted by Pyrofly
well eventually your going to have to talk to your dad i mean its your dad! if you like it or not your going to have to make up and the only way for that to happen is to clear the air lol
i know. i'm just waiting for him to cool down a bit. give him time to sort things out.
Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
i really, really, REALLY like this guy. i've never felt this deeply about someone b4. i need to hear his voice. be in his arms. hear him telling me its gonna be okay. i miss him so much it actually physically hurts.
awww dont worrie everything will work out in the end well were goin out i will be back later but if you have AIM you can add me SweetPyro3 buh byes xoxo *hugs fj* dont worrie everything will work out
as i said, i understand my dad's concern, but i think he's over-reacting a bit. we all say things we don't mean when we're angry and upset. i just think he's afraid of loosing me. btw, he's not my biological father, but i consider him my only dad. he's been there for me since i was 3. we usually can talk about anything. we can talk for hours. i know he cares about me and that's why he's acting like this, but he's just blowing things out of porportion.
Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
as i said, i understand my dad's concern, but i think he's over-reacting a bit. we all say things we don't mean when we're angry and upset. i just think he's afraid of loosing me. btw, he's not my biological father, but i consider him my only dad. he's been there for me since i was 3. we usually can talk about anything. we can talk for hours. i know he cares about me and that's why he's acting like this, but he's just blowing things out of porportion.
Evy's got me wondering though now. Is he truly making this too big a deal? Your his daughter, for all intents and purposes, so he cares about you, and he's worried about you getting caught up with some guy who you haven't even met. Granted, he should trust your judgement, but it's nothing more than my own parents would do in the same situation. Sure, they're a bit smothering, but they care for you. Put yourself in his shoes 😬 I'd probably act the same way
all i'm doing right now is talking on the phone. that's it. yeah, i wanna meet him one day, but when i'm ready. when we're both ready. my mom trusts me, why can't my dad?
anyway, i've g2g. talk to all of you later, well, when i can. apparantly i'm not allowed to get on KMC anymore. AIM eiher. my dad is constantly looking over my shoulder whenever i get on the internet and he's regulating all my phone calls too. talk about not having any privacy.
hugs and kisses to all. luv ya.