Godshinto, that's true. If it were to be the first thing I'd look for, it would have to be style. The way they dress, the way they walk, not necessarily face although it's quite important for first impressions, but more their demeanor.
Obviously it's looks and attitude that is the first thing you see, regardless of whether you're looking. Then, after initial introduction, I begin to concentrate more on mentality. I can't stand jilted conversation. It has to flow comfortably.
I'm not shallow enough to write off an ugly guy, as long as he's hygienic!! 😂 If I can talk to a guy, and I mean seriously converse, then I'm happy.
If you want simpler things, then I like them to smell nice, smile a lot and not be shy. I hate it when I meet shy guys, I'm so in your face that they always seem traumatised around me 😄
Originally posted by Linkalicious
shoes! 😄
😄 That goes for men as well! I really don't like it when men wear too short trousers, socks pulled way up the leg ( but still not enough to hide the pale skin and black hair) and, to make it perfect, with a pair of huge, long shoes or sandals ( still with a pair of big socks inside).