Jesus Christ. Why is it that the Pad (the place where people are supposed to come and vent/have fun/let lose) is always the place where all teh soap operah dramatic bullshit happens.
I dunno if everyone in this thread is simultaniously having their period or what, but everyone needs to calm the hell down. The past is the past and it's time to just forget about. Obviously TH feels bad for what he said/did ( I don't even know what it was, I know it's not as bad as everyone has blown it up to be) and apologized. It's time to get over it.
Also, Linds did nothing wrong to garner such anger and hostility from you Lil. (I know hostility and bitterness is your gimmick, but sometimes it just isn't necessary) She just came here to discuss TH, who frankly will be greatly missed by his true friends should he actually leave. She gave her opinion on the matter and said nothing remotely negative towards you. But as usual, you took what she said WAY to personally and blew it out of proportion. What you said was uncalled for, unecessary and mean.
Also, maybe you weren't here back there Lil, but Linds is quite infamous to veteran members, especially back when the OTF was first introduced. Many people that were here last summer remember her shananagins in the OTF and it is almost legendary. So don't act all high and mighty, she simply doesn't come here as much anymore because *gasp* she has stuff going on in her real life, God forbid.
Anyway, this thread is about TH, one of the best members this site has ever had. He always, ALWAYS tried to make people laugh, if he saw someone upset or sad, he'd usually try to do something to cheer them up, and now people are trying to botch his personallity because he had a bad day and said something bad, which he later apologized for. It's time to move on and get over it. Because frankly, I, among other people, want TH back here asap. He and his humor is really missed in these forums, where everyone is always overly dramatic lately.
Originally posted by BackFireI dunno if everyone in this thread is simultaniously having their period or what.
Anyway, this thread is about TH, one of the best members this site has ever had. He always, ALWAYS tried to make people laugh, if he saw someone upset or sad, he'd usually try to do something to cheer them up, and now people are trying to botch his personallity because he had a bad day and said something bad, which he later apologized for.
Why precisely are you so sexist?
So it's alright for men to vent and say stuff, but when girls vent they are almost always labelled as being on their period 😐
We all have bad days, and really unless you know exactly what he said or did, don't try to say oh he was having a bad day, and I'm sorry, I must have missed his apology, because I don't think his thread counts.
Originally posted by BackFire
Jesus Christ. Why is it that the Pad (the place where people are supposed to come and vent/have fun/let lose) is always the place where all teh soap operah dramatic bullshit happens.I dunno if everyone in this thread is simultaniously having their period or what, but everyone needs to calm the hell down. The past is the past and it's time to just forget about. Obviously TH feels bad for what he said/did ( I don't even know what it was, I know it's not as bad as everyone has blown it up to be) and apologized. It's time to get over it.
Also, Linds did nothing wrong to garner such anger and hostility from you Lil. (I know hostility and bitterness is your gimmick, but sometimes it just isn't necessary) She just came here to discuss TH, who frankly will be greatly missed by his true friends should he actually leave. She gave her opinion on the matter and said nothing remotely negative towards you. But as usual, you took what she said WAY to personally and blew it out of proportion. What you said was uncalled for, unecessary and mean.
Also, maybe you weren't here back there Lil, but Linds is quite infamous to veteran members, especially back when the OTF was first introduced. Many people that were here last summer remember her shananagins in the OTF and it is almost legendary. So don't act all high and mighty, she simply doesn't come here as much anymore because *gasp* she has stuff going on in her real life, God forbid.
Anyway, this thread is about TH, one of the best members this site has ever had. He always, ALWAYS tried to make people laugh, if he saw someone upset or sad, he'd usually try to do something to cheer them up, and now people are trying to botch his personallity because he had a bad day and said something bad, which he later apologized for. It's time to move on and get over it. Because frankly, I, among other people, want TH back here asap. He and his humor is really missed in these forums, where everyone is always overly dramatic lately.
Number one - PMSng, I think me and Kes are PMSing stimulationsly actually ✅
Number two, my reaction came from her involvment into my business, bringing it to the boards and brining my friends Chrissy and Irene into something they have nothing to do with.
She doesnt know me, therefore she needs to get her nose out of my business. She could have said, all she did, without mentioning any names, and i sware to you now, i wouldnt have said a word.
The behavior like that just shows the lack of manners. She knew very well what is going to happen if she came in here and said that. That post was ment to stir up shit, and she steared it up, now she should deal with it.
I read his apology, it was as clear as day. He apologized for what he said about you and Lil and obviously felt bad about it.
Also, I'm not sexist, it just happens that it's mainly women right now who are yelling and complaining about a guy who isn't even here to defend himself. When guys come in here and start moaning about how mad they are at TH's past actions then I'll address them in an equally sexist way.
Originally posted by BackFire
I read his apology, it was as clear as day. He apologized for what he said about you and Lil and obviously felt bad about it.Also, I'm not sexist, it just happens that it's mainly women right now who are yelling and complaining about a guy who isn't even here to defend himself. When guys come in here and start moaning about how mad they are at TH's past actions then I'll address them in an equally sexist way.
I was not involved in any way with what went on, he shouldn't have mentioned me.
Plus he chose to leave, we didn't force him out.
Originally posted by lil bitchiness
Number one - PMSng, I think me and Kes are PMSing stimulationsly actually ✅Number two, my reaction came from her involvment into my business, bringing it to the boards and brining my friends Chrissy and Irene into something they have nothing to do with.
She doesnt know me, therefore she needs to get her nose out of my business. She could have said, all she did, without mentioning any names, and i sware to you now, i wouldnt have said a word.
The behavior like that just shows the lack of manners. She knew very well what is going to happen if she came in here and said that. That post was ment to stir up shit, and she steared it up, now she should deal with it.
Well at least you admit your on your period, that explains alot.
Anyways, why is it it's ok for you to post your problems with TH on the public forum, but Linds cant' "Get involved". She's friends with TH, and Chrissy and has just as much a right to voice her opinion about the events of the last week as anyone else does. If you don't want people to discuss it, you and TH shouldn't have had this problem in public in teh first place.
Also, what behavior are you talking about? She said nothing disrespectful or mean to you, and you snapped at her like a big ugly shark. I know Linds, and I know she meant nothing negative against you or Sil, but again, she has just as much right to voice her opinion on whats going on as anyone else. It's been discussed in public before, therefor it's fairgame to discuss it on the forum.
at the risk of losing my nose or something... I very much agree with BF.
I get the feeling TH is being treatened very unfairly here, he's not around anymore to explain things or what ever and all I see is bashing.
if Linds say it's true he left, than that's all I need to know. She has every much the right to make a simple comment which did not hurt anyone, but you jump on it and almost bite over the neck.
ok fine you don't like people butting into your private life, I don't like that by a long shot either, but please just ignore it all instead of all this, it's just not ... nice.
so, let us please calm down and leave the past behind us
Originally posted by BackFire
Well at least you admit your on your period, that explains alot.Anyways, why is it it's ok for you to post your problems with TH on the public forum, but Linds cant' "Get involved". She's friends with TH, and Chrissy and has just as much a right to voice her opinion about the events of the last week as anyone else does. If you don't want people to discuss it, you and TH shouldn't have had this problem in public in teh first place.
Also, what behavior are you talking about? She said nothing disrespectful or mean to you, and you snapped at her like a big ugly shark. I know Linds, and I know she meant nothing negative against you or Sil, but again, she has just as much right to voice her opinion on whats going on as anyone else. It's been discussed in public before, therefor it's fairgame to discuss it on the forum.
I have not vented my problems with TH anywhere on the boards, and you know that.
She can be his friend, i dont care about it, but she should NOT involve me into her little arguments and opinions.
Also, please go back and read what Chrissy wrote, I dont think she was too happy about being involved.
I dont get your argument. I do not want my problems being vented on the boards by someone i dont even know or have never spoken to.
She can be there for TH as much as she likes, but as long as she keeps me out of it, but no she didnt, did she.
Like I said, she steared the shit, now she should deal with it!