i think i made a mistake

Started by realworlddreams3 pages

i think i made a mistake

u know how i talk about the girl ive been seeing for a bit over a month now? the one i went to prom w/who ive said is my gf cuz thats how it felt an all?
well...i havent really seen her all week, so today she had "practice" for a show, and i stayed there w/her cuz she didnt have to do a whole lotta practice...
anyways...
so im there w/her, n she wont really come near me, isnt really talkin to me, n running off to other people all the time...
she knows the only reason i was there was for her, cuz i thought it'd be nice to hang out w/her, cept she basically ignored me.

anyway...i got pretty fed up after about half n hour so i grabbed my stuff n started walking away....i didnt say goodbye

as im walkin, i heard her say goodbye, but i ignored her, acted like i didnt hear her. mostly cuz i was pretty mad at her

was i justified in not saying goodbye? and in being mad at her?
i dont WANT to be mad at her, but i felt really used right then.
The biggest problem we had was that we didnt get to see each other a lot, and now she had huge opportunity, and she ignored it and ignored me.
it seems to me as though she only likes me when its convienent for her, and that isnt very often. I dont want to be part of a fling, i dont want to get played off as something expendable...

as of today i consider myself single again, and if i can make a date w/sumone else, ima take it, simply cuz i'd rather have a few hrs of enjoyment rather than the hrs of pain spent wondering whats happened between me an her.

i dont even know how to react to this....theres never been anything like this in my life... 🙁 how can people be like this?
how could she take me for granted like that?

Sug. I hate to say this but I think She's cheating on you. My sisters' boyfriend acted the same way as you g/f did and he was cheating on her.

shes not cheating, shes got no time to cheat...i know that much
that was one of the problems that we had in the first place.

just talk to her. find out how she feels about you. if she thinks of you as a friend, you are SOL.

right now i dont think i could talk to her if i tried

well, if you wana know where you stand with her, you have to talk to her.

yeah, but not now
anyone care to answer my question tho?

you have a right to be confused, not angry.

y not angry, i was ignored treated as though i wasnt there at all

Well think about it dude I know this ain't what you want to hear but she wasn't there to spend time with you, she was there to practice for this show thing

Originally posted by realworlddreams
y not angry, i was ignored treated as though i wasnt there at all

dude, i am 33 nd i have a lot of experience with women. lemme tell you this..YOU ARE NEVER GONNA FIGURE THEM OUT. one day everything is fine, then the next day it is psycho time.

i know, it was her thing, not urs

great. relationship advice coming from who doesnt even have pubic hair.

I think you were justified, you spent your afternoon hoping to talk to her, and she just ignored you 😬

That b!tch!

If my guy ignored me all afternoon, after I gave up my time to be there, I would just walk away, or take his keys and use his car 😗

BTW you said she was running off from you, maybe she doesn't want anyone to know she's with you? 🙁
Plus, if she really cared, I would think that she would have followed you 😠

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
great. relationship advice coming from who doesnt even have pubic hair.
That was g****ing uncalled for you necropheliac

wow someone needs to take their vitamins to make them happy 😕

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
great. relationship advice coming from who doesnt even have pubic hair.

you know, you complain a lot about me starting shit and talking crap, but for a supposedly mature 33 year old, you start a lot of shit yourself. I wasn't even talking to you, and you insult something that you would have no clue about you friggin' pedaphile. Personally, when you die, maybe you should avoid the red light that surrounds you, but im sure hell will welcome you with open arms.

Originally posted by LarryTheArch
That was g****ing uncalled for you necropheliac

so are your smart ass comments we see around every corner. and you are not joking, so dont tell us you are joking. if you dish it out, you had better prepared to take it, junior.