i think that if we really have respect to everyone's sexuality, we just don't talk about it...
because for example, if ian's sexuality is really not important to us, why talking about it?
if it is not important, it should be exactly like talking about.. i dont know, about elijah's hair... we like him bald or with hair?? hey guys!! elijah is bald!! yay!! greatt!!... i mean... why do we care??
i we are cool about it, we may mention it in a casual chat (like elijah's hair), but not making a new thread to talk only about it 😕
besides, if ian were heterosexual, would there be a thread on ian's heterosexuality??
and btw, there is this movie i strongly recommend: "gods and monsters" with ian and brendan fraser... i saw it years ago...
Originally posted by Firithlotwen
hey i dont want to be rude, but honestly i think that somebody being gay or not is not a theme for a thread.......i mean, if we really are "so cool" with everyone's sexuality, why bother to make a new thread and to talk about it??
I believe it was just a comment on how happy we are that he does not try to hide it. Many people still hide their sexuality, but Ian is very open. he has been with his current partner for over ten yeasr, and they are very happy together.
lol so funny post people in this thread dont like talking about gays i mean i am sure Ian wouldn't mind if we talked about it because we are not critizing Gays.
I dont mind talking about gays becuase i have loads of people who are gays and we dont mind tlaking about it,
But i do understand most people are comfertable talking it
Originally posted by sauron
there is no such thing as gayim sure if a woman came along with a great personality he would fall for her too
its like, say...you talk to someone on a chat room and you 😍 them...then find out its a lad or something......thats how easy it is to love a man....?
omg good point sauron, though I know that won't happen to me, it's a bit freaky to fall in love over the net, u dunno who ya REALLY talking to.
yeah well say someone on this forum
and you PM them
over
and over
and over
and over
then you exchange emails and talk some more....
then when your 😍 (its personailty...you might not WANt to fall in love over the net but it happens..youcant help it) they say they are a guy or something....
then what...?
seeeeee.....theres no such thing as a gay its the mind you fall in love with!