it is my belief that there is someone for everyone . sometimes you find them when you're 16 & sometimes not till 50+ . it happens when its supposed to happen . no need to dwell on it thinking something is wrong w/ you . when a person is wraped up in selfpitty or worring all the time , it makes you less attractive anyhow . have confidence in yourself , hold your head high & live life . thats how & when it will happen .