well....lets see...it used to piss me off that im white n happen to have a LOT of asian friends, so after a while i was dubbed "the asian wannabe" (n im not...) but after a while it was kinda funny cuz whenever some racist comment was made about whites around me, some people would jus stop for a sec, but one of my buds'd be like, "dont worry hes asian..." 😛
but seriously, i get put down all the time, cuz im short n stuff...but i dont really care...im built n buff...so its all good...
n like, my family makes fun of me cuz of my goatee (my pics in the "post pic w/as less clothing..."😉 but that doesnt bug me either...i jus say ima dye my hair, eyebrows n goatee blue n they shut up pretty quick 😛 HA!
Originally posted by realworlddreams
well....lets see...it used to piss me off that im white n happen to have a LOT of asian friends, so after a while i was dubbed "the asian wannabe" (n im not...) but after a while it was kinda funny cuz whenever some racist comment was made about whites around me, some people would jus stop for a sec, but one of my buds'd be like, "dont worry hes asian..." 😛
but seriously, i get put down all the time, cuz im short n stuff...but i dont really care...im built n buff...so its all good...
n like, my family makes fun of me cuz of my goatee (my pics in the "post pic w/as less clothing..."😉 but that doesnt bug me either...i jus say ima dye my hair, eyebrows n goatee blue n they shut up pretty quick 😛 HA!
i thinmk your family is just ribbing you theres nothin wrong with that thats different than being put down
Re: do you ever care when people try putting you down?
Originally posted by Rabid_Wolverine
me no. people try putting me down all the time either because my race or the way i look.
what race ARE you???
me myself, im so proud that i dont care at all!!! i mea....before, id not care, except id care when people call me skinny.....but the other day this skank gave one of my friends the biggest biatchy look an she walked passed me an i fully stuck my elbow out and hit her right in **** (and man does that hurt) and she was like 'watch where ur goin!' then later on my friends come down 2 me an theyre like 'omg mich, ashala just said the meanest thing bvout u!' an i was like 'wat??' an shes like 'i dont wanna tell u, it'll upset u so much!' an i was like just tell me u know i dont cae wen ppl biatch bout me! a shes like 'she came into the gym and goes "stupid anorexic *****!"' an i just stood there and i didnt care!!! i was so proud! normally id be so upset bout that....but i wasnt 😄 so that means that NOTHING upsets me!
Re: do you ever care when people try putting you down?
Originally posted by Rabid_Wolverine
me no. people try putting me down all the time either because my race or the way i look.i usually ignore it but most of the time i i retaliate.
some dude who stank like a dead body was saying i can never get a girl.
i proved him wrong.
i told him man you stink take a shower and hears a bar of soap.
i do the same as you..i'll say sumthing back......but the comment made to me really effects me.....even if it isnt true....my self esteem is not so good....so if a person makes a bad comment....i keep concentrating on it and i go over and over what they said.....and i begin to belive its true......lately things have changed.and i do feel better about myself...but i still need to work on my self esteem....