do you ever care when people try putting you down?

Started by Deathblow2 pages
Originally posted by Raventheonly
Being mixed is really weird though... you feel like you belong nowhere.

i'm ok with it 😖

in fact i see it as an advantage.

a friend at work is part black and white. so what he does is when people ask him his race he just acts both races.

whats kool though abought mixed people is that you can confuse others.my friend bill is part mexican part japanese and i thought he was full mexican.

words are just words.

True, but it's always the thought that counts in a dictatorial society 🙂

we are not in a dictatorial society.

i can care less when people go hey looks its a honkey or cracker.

now i just say yeah im a craker introduce me to your mother so i can crack gher with a little sumttin somthing.

white bread cracka mofo!!!!!

Most of the time I do'nt care, I just sit there and just like ignore it or, you know, laugh along with it. A lot of people respected me for putting up with so much in 7th grade. And now they do'nt even mess with me anymore! Unless they're teasing of course.. but that's all for $h!ts and giggles.

eh, I just shrug it off...unless someone calls me gay. That pisses me off. Seriously; why the hell do you use gay as an insult in the first place? But that's a different story altogether, isn't it? 😬

i used to care when i was younger...i think everyone did but i could care less now but there are still those days were your not gonna be in the mood to be f#cked with and it harder to contain youself from getting into a fight on those days

well....lets see...it used to piss me off that im white n happen to have a LOT of asian friends, so after a while i was dubbed "the asian wannabe" (n im not...) but after a while it was kinda funny cuz whenever some racist comment was made about whites around me, some people would jus stop for a sec, but one of my buds'd be like, "dont worry hes asian..." 😛
but seriously, i get put down all the time, cuz im short n stuff...but i dont really care...im built n buff...so its all good...
n like, my family makes fun of me cuz of my goatee (my pics in the "post pic w/as less clothing..."😉 but that doesnt bug me either...i jus say ima dye my hair, eyebrows n goatee blue n they shut up pretty quick 😛 HA!

I am the easiest person in the world to make fun off so I dont care, but sometimes you know they hit that stop and I just go off haha

Originally posted by realworlddreams
well....lets see...it used to piss me off that im white n happen to have a LOT of asian friends, so after a while i was dubbed "the asian wannabe" (n im not...) but after a while it was kinda funny cuz whenever some racist comment was made about whites around me, some people would jus stop for a sec, but one of my buds'd be like, "dont worry hes asian..." 😛
but seriously, i get put down all the time, cuz im short n stuff...but i dont really care...im built n buff...so its all good...
n like, my family makes fun of me cuz of my goatee (my pics in the "post pic w/as less clothing..."😉 but that doesnt bug me either...i jus say ima dye my hair, eyebrows n goatee blue n they shut up pretty quick 😛 HA!

i thinmk your family is just ribbing you theres nothin wrong with that thats different than being put down

no, they make fun of me, but like i sed, i take most comments w/a grain of salt n forget about it...
it takes a hell of a lot more than that to get me down...

Re: do you ever care when people try putting you down?

Originally posted by Rabid_Wolverine
me no. people try putting me down all the time either because my race or the way i look.

what race ARE you???

me myself, im so proud that i dont care at all!!! i mea....before, id not care, except id care when people call me skinny.....but the other day this skank gave one of my friends the biggest biatchy look an she walked passed me an i fully stuck my elbow out and hit her right in **** (and man does that hurt) and she was like 'watch where ur goin!' then later on my friends come down 2 me an theyre like 'omg mich, ashala just said the meanest thing bvout u!' an i was like 'wat??' an shes like 'i dont wanna tell u, it'll upset u so much!' an i was like just tell me u know i dont cae wen ppl biatch bout me! a shes like 'she came into the gym and goes "stupid anorexic *****!"' an i just stood there and i didnt care!!! i was so proud! normally id be so upset bout that....but i wasnt 😄 so that means that NOTHING upsets me!

Originally posted by Rabid_Wolverine
im white.

i live in a ghetto and im not joking either.

ur white but live in the ghetto???
thats kinda wiered!!!

um, im white n live in the So. Cal suburbs...but a lady got murdered on my street about 7 years ago...i call my street the ghetto part of Stevenson Ranch...

*nods* ok then.

Re: do you ever care when people try putting you down?

Originally posted by Rabid_Wolverine
me no. people try putting me down all the time either because my race or the way i look.

i usually ignore it but most of the time i i retaliate.

some dude who stank like a dead body was saying i can never get a girl.

i proved him wrong.

i told him man you stink take a shower and hears a bar of soap.

i do the same as you..i'll say sumthing back......but the comment made to me really effects me.....even if it isnt true....my self esteem is not so good....so if a person makes a bad comment....i keep concentrating on it and i go over and over what they said.....and i begin to belive its true......lately things have changed.and i do feel better about myself...but i still need to work on my self esteem....

it depends who it is. if it's a family member or friend then it upsets me but if it's someone i really hate anyway then it doesn't bother me quite so much.