Originally posted by shadowy_blue
Smodden...I thought you DID decide already...I didn't know that you just wanted to leave just because of me. Why didn't you tell me?I NEVER told you that you have to leave too, I just sent you a PM saying that "I" will leave...and then you said that if I'm leaving...then you're leaving too. I NEVER forced you to do it. I even asked you so many times if you really want to leave. I NEVER knew that you have so many misgivings yet.
Reading your post it seems to me like I'm the one to blame for everything.
I feel so stupid now.
I know...Nobody force me to do anything...ESPECIALLY YOU s-b. at the time, it appeared to me that if you leave then I have no reason to be here, and if you can't be here, then I don't want to be here either. 😕...I DID tell you I was ready to leave...and I DID tell you I was going to leave. But I started to have some doughts later on after the decision was made...(when I saw the ppl in tig) So I changed my mind...
You are NOT stupid...I told you what I wanted...and we confirmed many times...I'm just changing my mind now...YOu did NOTHING wrong..🙂
I was just a little shocked, when I saw the announcement, because I didn't know we were going to formaly address it in that manner.
But its ok...😊
At this point in time...I'm not really sure what I am going to do...
I dont really know what happened this weekend, but i would appreciate it if someone let me in on it...
I have my own personal reasons, but also there is not a lot of point to Tig if many of my closeset friends aren't there...
I am just confusled now 😕
Originally posted by shadowy_blue
Sure I'm the one to blame for everything.Because of my farewell PM to Exa, she decided to leave Tig Party too. And because she left, you sauron..left too. And because of me leaving, Smodden wanted to leave too. Though I NEVER asked any of you to leave.
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Aye, complicated
But there surely is no blame on you 🙂
Leaving was all our own decision, you may have influenced us, but as you said, you didn't ask as to leave 🙂
Anyways, what will be shall be 🙂
I said in my original post that everyone I am sure needs time away from KMC that meaning the Tig Party as well... I myself have taken breaks in posting there... in fact I was not even in the top 10 posters in the first one. But what I am soooo upset about is that not only did these ppl take a break they are black listing it, pulling the situation out in the public, and making others want to leave. Have the decency to leave quitely and save others the frett about losing everyone.
Exa if there are reasons that I do not know of I am sorry, but you can see that I am upset.
Smodden I am sorry to you as well.✅
But what I am soooo upset about is that not only did these ppl take a break they are black listing it, pulling the situation out in the public, and making others want to leave. Have the decency to leave quitely and save others the frett about losing everyone.
Originally posted by ArrochAnyways, what will be shall be 🙂
u mean what happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way.
Anyway, it saddens me to see so many people leave the tig party. It was a good place to get to know the LotR memmbers here. But this is your choice, so do what you must.
*sigh* It saddens me to see the LoTR forum being ripped apart by this...so until said storm passes, I'm outta here as well...
...in no way is this anything personal, I'd like to make that crystal clear. I just don't like people I think of as friends ragging on each other 😬
you can find me in the OTF if you really care...but somehow, I doubt that
So basically what y'all are saying ( or at least those that have stated that they want to leave the Tig Party ) is that, even though you have friends here...you won't be agknowledging them in the Tig Party or anywhere else on KMC ( for off topic posts are against the rules ).
Guess I just don't have a valid reason to depart from my friends that I have made over the past 6 months. I myself haven't been able to come to the Tig Party or KMC for that matter for the past couple of weeks, and instead of saying that I was leaving or taking a break, I make every effort that I can to just come in and say hello to those that are around.
Instead of making a public declaration of my departure, it just kind of happened, and I too have hurt someone that I care about !
Chris, I don't want you thinking that I have deserted you. You are my best mate, and I shall always think of you as such ! I know that I haven't been there for you, and I hope that you can forgive me. I feel horrible not being there for a friend, when he was there in my time of need ! ( Please go to the Tig Party for a continuance of this post )