Everyone is a loser in their own rights. Everyone has done something, or maybe still do something that consider 'loser-ish.'
- I enjoy video games. Particularly Role-Playing games.
- I enjoy card games, and puzzles, and various strategy games
- I spend a lot of time on the computer in message boards.
- I collect action figures.
- I collect comics
- I watch cartoons intended for little kids
Everyone is a little bit of a loser. That just means they are the person they want to be. Less of a people pleaser, and more of a self-pleaser.