No. Wtf is that shit?? Your friends are retards. http://www.nycgoth.com type in a name and enter the chat, ask around. Don't be ignorant.
I don't think anyone knows what goth is(yea, even "goths" themselves). The best explination I have heard yet, is that a goth is someone who sits apart from the group, someone who would rather watch than participate, ponder fairly unanswerable questions, and then become depressed. Maybe use a low-level drug, i.e. smoke marijuana once in a while. They don't really have to wear make-up to be a goth, but that is a stereotypical sign for a reason, lots of 'goths' do it.