Why is it that...........

😂
the right term is 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' i believe 😊

no no, its more along the lines of what i said ✅

but wehat u said is also a phrase!

Originally posted by m!$hA
i dont know...thats a very....annoying question! but i guess the only answer i can give is "you only appreciate what youve got until its gone"...............or something like that 😖

😖 so you mean when you lose that something you don't appreciate it anymore?

as in, out of sight,out of mind?

🙄 oh man these people who come up with phrases oughta work together.how on earth can these two phrases coexist i don't understand.

no, i mean like....its like say when you have a boyfriend (its the 1st thing that camt to my mind) who you dont love that much....so u break up with him...then you realise how much you love him!!! u know?

that's what i said - "familiarity breeds contempt,and absence makes the heart grow fonder"

when you have something,you don't realise how much it means to you - in fact,you might even end up disliking that person or place or whatever.but once it's gone...you'll die to have it back,cuz only then you realise how much it means to you.
😖mart: is that what you meant?

Originally posted by silver_tears
..........everyone wants what they can't have?

basically: the grass is always greener ✅

Originally posted by dave123
because if they have it, they no longer want it as badly. but if there's something you can't have you want it even more.

basically: the grass is always greener ✅

o.o....can i burn the grass? 😱

no, because you don't always get what you want ❌

you're a pretty good example: you only want my nut, because it's my precious 😊 you're just jealous 😛

Originally posted by Anoushka
that's what i said - "familiarity breeds contempt,and absence makes the heart grow fonder"

when you have something,you don't realise how much it means to you - in fact,you might even end up disliking that person or place or whatever.but once it's gone...you'll die to have it back,cuz only then you realise how much it means to you.
😖mart: is that what you meant?

sure is!!!!
ive had that with my last b/f...i never really appreciated him so i broke up with him.....well i dont wanna go back out with him, i just wanna be closer than we are now....were pretty good friends...but not as close as we were before!

Originally posted by m!$hA
sure is!!!!
ive had that with my last b/f...i never really appreciated him so i broke up with him.....well i dont wanna go back out with him, i just wanna be closer than we are now....were pretty good friends...but not as close as we were before!

i know how it is ✅ you don't truly appreciate what you've got til it's gone

Originally posted by dave123
no, because you don't always get what you want ❌

you're a pretty good example: you only want my nut, because it's my precious 😊 you're just jealous 😛

0.0...that so didnt sound right ^^ WHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by Anoushka
😖mart: well said Nivek

I'm reminded of why I like you so much 😊

I lover you jithra 😍 😊 droolio

I lover you all

droolio

And then there's the kind that really just socialize with you because you're the constant center of attention.

Theres people like that here....

most of the time people don't know what they want

people NEVER know what they want.

Go watch bruce almighty 😛😉

Originally posted by Darth Sauron
Theres people like that here....

Yes I know

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Originally posted by silver_tears
..........everyone wants what they can't have?
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doh No, no, no, no...

Take it from someone who's taken way too many psychology classes.

We all seem to desire things we can't have. Why? Competition? Supply and demand? Maybe. It is more likely that we desire things because we create this fantasy about what it would be like to have it. When we recieve it and find ourselves no longer wanting it, it may be because it is not as grand as we had imagined.

Those of us who desire the love of another, and finally recieve it, know this to be true. We tell ourselves that we will be better off, and happier when that person loves us. We think that it can make our entire existence worth living. But, as we soon learn, that person is normal. He/she has their own flaws and problems. Soon, the pedestal we have put them on has crumbled, and, oops, we're bored again......

i want my brain back 🙁 i cant believe i lost it in satans rectum cry