No one's "pissed," at least I'm not.
I do have a very strong feelings about knowingly giving the underage sexually explicit materials though. I never do it. Its a point of honor with me. Its not the right thing to do as far as I am concerned. If I had kids I would not want people exposing my kids to it.
Are kids seeing porn online? Sure. Its npt MINE though. you know? I cant police everybody, but I can police myself.
Since this issue is out in the open now, I'd say allow Junkie access to the all ages group if she wants it. Group 2 is for adults only. If she manages to sneak in somehow, well that will not be the fault of the moderator because policy has been plainly stated and wilfully circumvented.
Its not just a moral thing, if kids are knowingly let in that has legal ramifications. This is the thing to avoid at all costs. Perceived maturity is not the issue. The issue is that a minor's parents could raise all kimds of Hell for other members. We have to protect ourselves. It is not about being mean to kids.