I’m a leader. Not because I want to, it just happens. And I absolutely abhor taking responsibility for everything set in motion by what I say, suggest or do.
The best example was at uni, where some guy asked if I’d help with the yearly physics show. I said yes, and after a week I was the sole responsible lead-it-all (it taught me the value of trying to keep my mouth shut until I know what I say “yes” to 😄 . Trying that is.).
Some people want to be leaders, but lack the charisma. Some just want to mill along, and lack the initiative.