well, and this is from experience, you aren't going to make friends if you don't try to make friends. also, you have been here for less than a month, and have less than 200 posts, so people really don't have much to know you on. My suggestion is to find a forum or two that are really interesting to you, and just stick with it. if you still aren't satisfied after a few weeks, well, that's too bad, but it is your desire or not.