I thought about that 2, about how he should have known Alicia would do sumthin to him, which would make sense, but then when clark says, "Is dad still mad?" martha says, "What do you think? You got married to a girl who tried to kill you!" or sumthin along those lines.
He was on red kryptonite, so I cant see y they are being so hard on him.
Sure I would be upset, but I wouldn't be mad at my kid...