well, my first was when I was eighteen... she was sixteen, and we were together a year and a bit, then she ran off with my cousin... I then almost went out with a girl at college, and almost went out with a girl from down south... then me and my first got back together, got married, had a son, were together about twelve years or so, and got divorced when she left me and our son and ran off with a taxi driver... then i went with an 18 yera old girl for two weeks, had an off-on (mainly off) with a lafdy i worked with that didn't get anywhere, and now I'm good friends with another lady I worked with... she's a divorced single parent too....