I need help...BOY PROBLEM!

Originally posted by DirtyBlondPrepa
hehe...sorry..I m so youung..I can't spell..lol....ok..I LIKE my guy friend...we firlt alot and talk and stuff...hes got a gf...and i don't care...I won't ruin things for then thoguh...he stares at me alot and stuff....anyway..hes a skator and likes punk musci...I know nothing about heavy metal bands..although I do like yellowcard...etc....anyway,,,I don't know anything about heavy metal bands...and about being punk...so can you help me...do you know anything about punk or heavy metal bands??...and do you know anything about being punk?....or skator?...thanks

-_- heres somthing my mom would say (DAMN YOU GENETICS!!!!)

listen, you should just be yourself, and if he doesnt like you for who you are, thats his fault, and hes missing out.... of course booty calls are perfectly fine 😆 thank god a little of dad got in there

I agree with what everybody else said. BUT...

Darth's list of the ten best bands this side of Singapore:
(in no order)
1. Tool
2. Rage Against the Machine
3. A Perfect Circle
4. Korn
5. Incubus
6. Bad Religion
7. In Flames (don't listen to them though. They'll probably scare you 😛)
8. Deftones
9. System of a Down
10. Faith No More

And, converseley, the ten worst bands:

1. Nickelback
2. Creed
3. Yellowcard (sorry)
4. New Found Glory
5. Good Charlotte
6. Simple Plan
7. POD
8. Kid Rock
9. Linkin Park
10. Hoobastank (new stuff anyways)

And five bands that a lot of kids pretend to like just so people will think they're cool:

1. The Clash
2. The Ramones
3. AFI
4. Metallica
5. Rancid

Thank you for your time. 😐

true darth so damn true. i kids in my school wearing clash and ramones shirts but yet they can name only about two songs of theirs

Originally posted by Darth Revan
And five bands that a lot of kids pretend to like just so people will think they're cool:

1. The Clash
2. The Ramones
3. AFI
4. Metallica
5. Rancid

Thats some funny-yet-true-yet-funny shit right there.

But Metallica - cool? Not in my 'hood yo!

Really? I see a ton of kids walking around wearing Metallica shirts.... 😑

Originally posted by Linkalicious
NEVER change who you are in order to make someone like you. If you're going to change yourself....then do it FOR YOURSELF. Not just to get a guy.

If he flirts with you, then tell him something like "sorry, you have a GIRLFRIEND!"

Make it clear that he [b]could have you.....except for the girlfriend. 😉 [/B]

Thats was such good sound sensible advice i just called up my fiance and broke of our engagement. Now I want to marry Linka!!!!

Originally posted by Darth Revan
Really? I see a ton of kids walking around wearing Metallica shirts.... 😑

Me too - but i didnt think it was so they would look cool - i just figured they were poor and bought the shirts at Goodwill.

Originally posted by DirtyBlondPrepa
you can just tell...I know hes a great friend too.....he always sees me in the hallway and stares at me while his gf his trying to put his arm around her but he just pushes her away..but he would hate to break her heart...and so would i ... but I hoesnlt liek him cause we've both gone thorugh the same problems...and its so weird...I can finally be myself around him...its a realy weird thing..and people say we look alike too...how weird

well if you can "be yourself around him" why should you have to change your like in music and style...plus, let me tell you, punk rock is an endangered species and any quick uncalled-for changes...i dont know...not necessarily a good thing...but thats beside the point...dude he has a girlfriend, and if he likes you, he's breaking this girls heart by going out with her and not liking HER...if he wants to be with you, he wouldnt be with her...so let him know that your not gonna wait around, and he needs to make up his mind...dont put up with any "i dont want to break her heart" bullsh!t for too long

Originally posted by DirtyBlondPrepa
you can just tell...I know hes a great friend too.....he always sees me in the hallway and stares at me while his gf his trying to put his arm around her but he just pushes her away..but he would hate to break her heart...and so would i ... but I hoesnlt liek him cause we've both gone thorugh the same problems...and its so weird...I can finally be myself around him...its a realy weird thing..and people say we look alike too...how weird

here... let me pop your bubble. blow

FIRST OF ALL. How can you feel like you are able to be yourself around him while, at the same time, you feel like you need to change to attract him????????????????????????????????????????

One year ago tomorrow I met with a man who I expected would be a good friend. I was engaged at the time. Everything started off well. Then the Fiance snapped. The friend worked at a radio station, and I was invited to see inside the station. The Fiance was invited as well, but wouldn't go. He was having a tempertantrum. Long story short, it escalated from there. One month and 21 days after I had met my friend, my Fiance and I were done. He had gotten out of control, obsessive, possessive, and violent. He gave me 5 days to choose between him and my friend. I chose my friend over an insane Fiance.

My friend felt like he was to blame for breaking us up. It took months for me to explain to him that he was not the only cause. I had to break down and tell him the biggest secret of all, that not even my closest girlfriends know about the breakup.

Hopefully, if you have any decency, you will leave well enough alone. If you keep at it the way you are, you will break them apart, and if you are human, you will feel terrible about it. Leave them be, be patient, and if you two are meant to be together, he will break up with her and be with you. BUT . . . Don't hold your breath.

well why are u changing u for him, if he really liked u he wouldnt care wut music or clothes u wear and listen to, but if u really need it then, i do so u can ask me, cuz i skate...

sorry ican't help,because i have no luck in that department

Try putting YOURSELF in his girlfriend's shoes and then you might understand how she will feel if you ruin it for her.

She might even come looking for YOU if you take her boyfriend.

I know that this stuff goes on all the time at school and I know that many if not all of these really hot sets of feelings can cool pretty quick when situations change.

Believe me DBP.....this painful crush that you have on this boy that has little in common with you will eventually subside and you will fall deeply in love with some other even MORE handsome guy soon.

That's the way it happens....honest !

that has never happened to me,because i have never done that.

Who cares if hes a skater. There are plenty people that ride on a peice of wood with wheels aka a skateboard. Dont change who you are. How will you be able to be like that for however long you plan to be with him?
IMO you should find someone else.

i think skateboarding is for people who cant play real sports

OMG>>>>My friends asked how he flet about me and he broke up with his gf and then cause she cheated on him eight times😛...anyway...they asked him what he would do if I was his gf and he started to blush and mess with his hair....omg..then he called me hot😍...hes going to ask me out on monday...omg...you guys were right I didn't have to change who I was✅.....My first bf..omg..i m so excited...wish me luck😄

I rember my first BF

I know I m so exicted...

and if it doesnt work out, take give my idea a chance

ok😉...wait waht was ur idea😖