Originally posted by Linkalicious
you know what the worst thing is...You made this thread asking for help, but your decision is already made.
I think you're going to go for this girl regardless. Once the ball has started rolling...then it's all downhill from there. I can guarantee nothing good will come out of this other than a little hankey pankey.
you're basically ruining this guys life and their marriage just to get laid.
Well, i think, even though his mind was seemingly already made up when he made this, nothings going to happen tonight, i think he will do the right thing and tell her it was a mistake and he was drunk.
Lance, I'm just being harsh because I want you to see that there can really be no good that will come from this.
It'll ruin their marriage
Your work environment will turn to crap
You may lose them both as friends
He may want to get even with you by trying to ruin your personal relationships (if you are still working together and get a girlfriend)
the negatives vastly outweigh the positives bud, just choose wisely when the time comes to make the decision.
dude just be glad you didnt sleep with her. who knows what wouldve happened if she got pregnant. i have the same problam. i have a g/f and ive been with her for 6 years. lastnight a chick tried going a little further with me except i told her i have a g/f back home. im on vacation in california so i went to a few parties. now she's stalking me.